"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am i Crazy? No i'm not!!!

Precursor

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Today i was bored with nothing to do so i decided to start running again (i usually go 3.1 miles). After i finished, i was tired. I had my mp3 player so on my way back home, i started listening to it. (i mostly listen to r&b and a little bit of hiphop)

I just started to dance and sing silently while walking . this is out of my normal character. hahaha i had fun. the senior citizens looked at me as if i were crazy. the younger people gave me smiles and i smiled back. hahahaha. i just kept doing that all the way home. felt good.

I'm a bit crazy cause I'm trying to break away oneitis from that one particular girl but hey that felt awesome.

That felt good and upbeat. Felt much better than dealing with her BS. I haven't moved like that since i started reading the DJ bible.

JUst Sharing my experience.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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eko

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haha that's the best. i love just letting loose sometimes

i went for a run today too.... but it was hot as hell out. i've been going thru a lot of girl-oneitis bs and working full time up to 50 hrs/week so i don't have a lot of time to do much of anything. worst part is this girl has been begging me to hang out for like 4 days and gets pissed cause i 'work too much'... and it makes me pissed too cause thats all i wanna do so I'm in a bad mood at work and during the day when cause I'm never with her and that's all I end up thinking about. I just wanna get away from that feeling and live my life it sucks.
 

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hey sometimes I also have to do that lol. theres nothing wrong witth it, even if people think were crazy f*ck them. they dont have the balls to do some crazy s*it sometimes.
 

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I dance crazy all the time even when there is no music. I'll have a song stuck in my head and start dancing, its pretty funny when people look at me lik "WTF?"
 
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