"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I boring? =O

TravisBickle

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Idkmyname said:
Being well dressed doesn't mean you're a hipster douche bag.
the OP is well dressed. she called him boring, and hipster clothing is "not boring". Thus, don't fall for craze, and dress up like a hipster to avoid being boring.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I personally think your attire is a bit weird.

Especially the trench coat. Ditch that. Approaching woman in that will just make them laugh at you (Unless you are a real natural at picking up- which I assume you aren't...So for now drop the **** that isn't going to help).

Get some colour happening, it will help brighten up your look. Dressing in all black is a big thumbs down from most people.

And a hat is just a hat. Wear it if you feel like wearing a hat I guess?

Go clothes shopping.
 

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TravisBickle said:
the OP is well dressed. she called him boring, and hipster clothing is "not boring". Thus, don't fall for craze, and dress up like a hipster to avoid being boring.
If he were to change his attire completely I would agree with you, but every one on here has replied with subtle changes to his outfit.
 

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Not boring. Creepy maybe.

You dress like a lot of guys that are different and quirky. Which begs the question, why do different people dress alike? But anyway, I wouldn't call it boring. Or even creepy. Just quirky.

And there's nothing wrong with being quirky. Plenty of girls will dig it out there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, given the feedback of the thread, I went shopping on saturday and got myself a cool shirt from Officers Club. I'll post a photo once I get a good one.
 
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