“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have an iphone and the girl im texting has an iphone to. The messages say delivered which usually doesnt pop up if youve been blocked but everytime i call it goes to voicemail.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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You might be my friend but the best response is to stop trying to call and leave it be. If she wants to interact with you she'll find a way and that's the only way you want.
 

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I have an iphone and the girl im texting has an iphone to. The messages say delivered which usually doesnt pop up if youve been blocked but everytime i call it goes to voicemail.
Stop texting and calling her. If she is interested in you then she will eventually reach out
 

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When you posted this question, I'm betting that you weren't thinking "gee, I sure hope I get a lecture instead of an answer". Right?

And so... to answer your question: Unless they are in a patchy area, battery has died or have their settings to "airplane" mode, chances are you have been blocked.

I don't suggest this, but if you really want to know 100%, here's how you do it. Before calling, add *67 to her phone number. It will show up as a "blocked number" or "unknown caller." All I know is that I wish that iphone would allow us to block these, but they don't. I don't know of anyone that answers these type of calls (I sure don't). Anyway... if it rings, you can likely conclude that your number has been blocked.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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When you posted this question, I'm betting that you weren't thinking "gee, I sure hope I get a lecture instead of an answer". Right?

And so... to answer your question: Unless they are in a patchy area, battery has died or have their settings to "airplane" mode, chances are you have been blocked.

I don't suggest this, but if you really want to know 100%, here's how you do it. Before calling, add *67 to her phone number. It will show up as a "blocked number" or "unknown caller." All I know is that I wish that iphone would allow us to block these, but they don't. I don't know of anyone that answers these type of calls (I sure don't). Anyway... if it rings, you can likely conclude that your number has been blocked.
blocked numbers dont have delivered. But mine always say delivered. But when i call it goes to voicemail
 

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In my experience, blocked between two iPhones won’t show delivered - it goes green if you have your settings on send as text message when iMessage doesn’t work, or it will not show anything under the message bubble.

This also happens if they have no service, airplane mode, or phone is off.


If their phone is on “Do not disturb” setting yours will show delivered. In which case they get your message but no notification.
 

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I have an iphone and the girl im texting has an iphone to. The messages say delivered which usually doesnt pop up if youve been blocked but everytime i call it goes to voicemail.
never double text unless it is urgent
 

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What's this have to do with anything?

He's been blocked by a girl who doesn't want anything to do with him, now he's all in his feelings about it.

The bigger issue here is, 'what did this guy do to push her to this point?'

My guess is he blew her phone up one night. I'm guessing a 'baby, please talk to me. I'm sorry.' was involved.

Chicks don't just casually block a guy's number. This guy flew off the rocker one day and went full on Beta.
The point was that if you would have as a rule not to double text , you will not think if she blocked you or not

him thinking that he was blocked , means that he double text , triple text and so on + calling her , etc

if he would not have been blocked prior to this , this behavior for sure would have made the girl block him or ignore him even more
 

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What's this have to do with anything?

He's been blocked by a girl who doesn't want anything to do with him, now he's all in his feelings about it.

The bigger issue here is, 'what did this guy do to push her to this point?'

My guess is he blew her phone up one night. I'm guessing a 'baby, please talk to me. I'm sorry.' was involved.

Chicks don't just casually block a guy's number. This guy flew off the rocker one day and went full on Beta.
this is what happened bros. I feel so ashamed. I was the alpha she did everything for. Tbh i just want her to see me as that aLPHA again fvck
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Airplane mode and/or poor cell reception beyond wi-fi.

So go on about your life and don't overthink this...

Even if you are blocked, your response should be the same.
 

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I have an iphone and the girl im texting has an iphone to. The messages say delivered which usually doesnt pop up if youve been blocked but everytime i call it goes to voicemail.
One thing is the urge to know what you did to push her to block you. I'd understand that if you wanted to improve and avoid this happening again. However, more often than not, it is not completely your fault to which I advise not taking this personally. Someone that blocks you for no reason simply does not have respect for you so avoid taking it personally.

Another thing is to be butt hurt and get "hurt" by her actions. Get a hold of yourself mate. Control your emotions and stop having a scarcity mindset. If you were talking to other girls, this wouldn't faze you. That is your main issue here.

Last but not least, "I just want her to see me as that alpha again"?? NEVER do or "be" anything for someone. "Alphas" (whatever that means) never have to prove themselves, especially to other people. That should NEVER cross your mind or come out of your mouth. STOP IT!

Again, get a hold of yourself man.

Modern Man Advice
 

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One thing is the urge to know what you did to push her to block you. I'd understand that if you wanted to improve and avoid this happening again. However, more often than not, it is not completely your fault to which I advise not taking this personally. Someone that blocks you for no reason simply does not have respect for you so avoid taking it personally.

Another thing is to be butt hurt and get "hurt" by her actions. Get a hold of yourself mate. Control your emotions and stop having a scarcity mindset. If you were talking to other girls, this wouldn't faze you. That is your main issue here.

Last but not least, "I just want her to see me as that alpha again"?? NEVER do or "be" anything for someone. "Alphas" (whatever that means) never have to prove themselves, especially to other people. That should NEVER cross your mind or come out of your mouth. STOP IT!

Again, get a hold of yourself man.

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she looked up to me and was submissive as fvck to me. Then she started seeing another guy and i started blowing up her phone so she went to him. I fvcked up god damnit
 

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she looked up to me and was submissive as fvck to me. Then she started seeing another guy and i started blowing up her phone so she went to him. I fvcked up god damnit
It's okay man, we all make those mistakes. Unfortunately, it is the way most (if not all) of us learn.

You got needy. Just don't do it next time. You simply got too attached and didn't (and still don't) have enough abundance.

Solution: Do not get attached too easily and create abundance in your life.


Modern Man Advice
 

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Tip of the day for iPhone users:
Go under message settings and TURN OFF iMessaging and use SMS option instead.
Girls don't need to know when you have read their messages. They can be patient just like everyone else and wait for a response.
It goes the other way as well, as OP demonstrated.

iMessaging is nothing more than insecure people to keep tabs of each other.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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