"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Am I being too Judgmental?

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Zapp Brannigan

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I'll meet a girl, and they'll seem good and sincere at first. Usually I'll begin to get a slight crush, and then find out they aren't at all what they seemed. They'll turn out to be into self destructive habits like drinking/smoking, be snobbish towards other girls, or something else that I see as a red flag.

I'm not really into that whole "Pump N Dump" life, and don't really want that. My personality type takes relationships seriously, and while I haven't been with a million girls the ones I have been with were good. It seems that around 90% of females these days carry some if not all of these negative traits. Am I being to judgmental?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To be fair, its not just females that are like this. All people are this way inclined.
 
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Agree with above. "The only people who aren't fvcked up are people you don't know very well". Think of it as "wonderfully flawed".

And if you do meet one that doesn't disappoint you at all early on, be careful that you don't put her on a pedestal, get oneitis and end up heart broken...
 
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