"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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am I being too crass?

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asianbboy

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Me: Boo boo how was your dc adventure 11:41 AM
girl: Im stilll in dc haha 11:53 AM
Me: Hungover from last nights partying? 12:02 PM
G: Ahaha nahh. I spent my night with my cousins in a hottub. How was your saturday? 12:03 PM
Me: Sex 12:07 PM
G: Thats always good 12:07 PM
Me: You missed out 12:11 PM
G: Aww poor me 1:42 PM
Me: I for one missed ur beautiful asian hair. You double condition that badboy? 5:26 PM

no response. pook said to listen to the testosterone. i was acting purely on instinct here but was it too much?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LearningSlowly

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Nah don't overthink it. You said what you said, no taking that back. Kept it simple and sexual, it is what it is.

Also you posted this twice.
 
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DanZy

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That hair line was horribly lame and fairly weird, I can understand why she didn't reply.
Being sexual is key to text game so keep that there
 
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Thomas20

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I find it very funny and it definitely not too hard or anything.

The only thing wrong with it, is that textgame just sucks, precisely because of her ability to not reply and to leave you wondering.
If you continue using textgame you should stop caring at all, to what she answers, else it won't be very effective.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigSmooth

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That is why I dislike texting, and mainly use texting as a source to meet up, or flirt quickly with no second thoughts on what I just texted.
 
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