"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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am I being too crass?

asianbboy

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Me: Boo boo how was your dc adventure 11:41 AM
girl: Im stilll in dc haha 11:53 AM
Me: Hungover from last nights partying? 12:02 PM
G: Ahaha nahh. I spent my night with my cousins in a hottub. How was your saturday? 12:03 PM
Me: Sex 12:07 PM
G: Thats always good 12:07 PM
Me: You missed out 12:11 PM
G: Aww poor me 1:42 PM
Me: I for one missed ur beautiful asian hair. You double condition that badboy? 5:26 PM

no response. pook said to listen to the testosterone. i was acting purely on instinct here but was it too much?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LearningSlowly

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Nah don't overthink it. You said what you said, no taking that back. Kept it simple and sexual, it is what it is.

Also you posted this twice.
 

DanZy

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That hair line was horribly lame and fairly weird, I can understand why she didn't reply.
Being sexual is key to text game so keep that there
 

Thomas20

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I find it very funny and it definitely not too hard or anything.

The only thing wrong with it, is that textgame just sucks, precisely because of her ability to not reply and to leave you wondering.
If you continue using textgame you should stop caring at all, to what she answers, else it won't be very effective.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigSmooth

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That is why I dislike texting, and mainly use texting as a source to meet up, or flirt quickly with no second thoughts on what I just texted.
 
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