"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Am i being paranoid or am i just not stupid?

UnsworthK

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Sposed to meet up with girl tonight, drive round hers. Talking all day on IM, then she disappears for a few hours and said she fell asleep. Went for a walk with a "friend" apparently and now im here i reckon hes been having sex with someone else al day when she said he was asleep. We are supposed to go out together with another couple tomorrow but i think she just wants me there so shes not a third wheel but she is getting sex from another dude.

Is this paranoia or am i right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some more info - ive seen her 4 times in the last 2 months or so, we are not in a relationship. We have had sec before
 

Jetleg

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been there.
who cares if she bangs another guy, don't look needy and don't text her that much.
you want a relationship with this girl? if so just leave her alone, because she doesn't. if you just wanna fck her then i dont see a problem.

just make sure you have other girls, and that she doesnt control you (flaking, treating you like her second option etc)

and also i wouldn't go on a double date at this stage, with this kind of girl, waste of time (especiallyif you're not in a relationship)
 
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