"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am i being paranoid or am i just not stupid?

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Sposed to meet up with girl tonight, drive round hers. Talking all day on IM, then she disappears for a few hours and said she fell asleep. Went for a walk with a "friend" apparently and now im here i reckon hes been having sex with someone else al day when she said he was asleep. We are supposed to go out together with another couple tomorrow but i think she just wants me there so shes not a third wheel but she is getting sex from another dude.

Is this paranoia or am i right?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some more info - ive seen her 4 times in the last 2 months or so, we are not in a relationship. We have had sec before
 
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been there.
who cares if she bangs another guy, don't look needy and don't text her that much.
you want a relationship with this girl? if so just leave her alone, because she doesn't. if you just wanna fck her then i dont see a problem.

just make sure you have other girls, and that she doesnt control you (flaking, treating you like her second option etc)

and also i wouldn't go on a double date at this stage, with this kind of girl, waste of time (especiallyif you're not in a relationship)
 
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