“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am i being paranoid or am i just not stupid?

UnsworthK

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Sposed to meet up with girl tonight, drive round hers. Talking all day on IM, then she disappears for a few hours and said she fell asleep. Went for a walk with a "friend" apparently and now im here i reckon hes been having sex with someone else al day when she said he was asleep. We are supposed to go out together with another couple tomorrow but i think she just wants me there so shes not a third wheel but she is getting sex from another dude.

Is this paranoia or am i right?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Some more info - ive seen her 4 times in the last 2 months or so, we are not in a relationship. We have had sec before
 

Jetleg

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been there.
who cares if she bangs another guy, don't look needy and don't text her that much.
you want a relationship with this girl? if so just leave her alone, because she doesn't. if you just wanna fck her then i dont see a problem.

just make sure you have other girls, and that she doesnt control you (flaking, treating you like her second option etc)

and also i wouldn't go on a double date at this stage, with this kind of girl, waste of time (especiallyif you're not in a relationship)
 
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