"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Originally posted by kk2004
me: you know just cuz im nice doenst mean i cant be rough
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Saying that means you aren't rough.
If you're rough you don't sit there and say it,everyone can see it in your actions.

Originally posted by kk2004
so i also gotta pose as the strong man
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Why are you posing?
Why are you acting?
Why are you pretending to be something you're not?

If you're not a strong man(and from the words you use and the tone of your posts,you aren't)then make yourself into one.
No acting,no forgetting your lines,no having to think HOW would a strong man be/act because you'll be one.
Simple.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thas what im doing these days, im weightlifitng, and i do feel comfortable in who i am. I dont see my self as a flawed individual and no, i dont memorize lines. Im trying to work on my inner game. confidence comes when u believe in who u are and stick to who u are and defend ur territory which is when it is needed. but most of the time i consider dumb ass ppl useless anyway so it doesnt bother me. I need to have more confidence and that comes from believe in ones own abilities.

The tone i was using was just a positive one and i dont always use it
 
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