Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Am I an ugly dude (pics included)

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Die Hard

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You're not ugly at all. You do have too much of a nice guy aura, though. You seem like the type of guy girls think of as "sweet" and want to cuddle with, lol. But that's just my impression from the pic, perhaps it's different in real life. Anyway, not ugly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Iceberg

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You look like a dude, dude.
 

RSanders219

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you look good man, maybe just work on your style a bit. I hate using this term to describe people.. but dress more "badass" maybe.
 

BBbardot

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ricososuave said:
I've been wanting to know for years. Be brutally honest I dont care. If so, what should I do to improve look
http://www.flickr.com/photos/59390829@N02/5435587553/
not ugly
although please do a little experience for me
look at the picture
now block out your smile/bottom part of your face
don't you see? it looks liek your eyes are in pain. It makes your general smile a bit crazy.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JLW

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You're a decent looking guy. I agree with what one of the other posters said though: you need more of a "style". Develop something about the way you look (clothing, apparel, whatever) that distinguishes you from the pack.

Right now, your looks aren't something that hurts your chances with women. But if you start dressing a little nicer, it will actually HELP you with women.
 

btownbuck2012

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Jesus Christ almighty man you're FINE. NOT UGLY AT ALL.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Blackmm said:
I get that "Nice guy" vibe off that photo too. Maybe its just the photo, but your smile seems to say "Please love me".

Check out this guys look.

http://quizilla.teennick.com/user_images/E/emmareth/1091748845_dracopoa04.jpg

That's the facial expression you need.
He needs the facial expression of a man who wants to bang other men?

No, but seriously. It's corny when a dude can't smile in a picture. "I'm too cool to smile." Oh yeah? Then why are you posing for a camera?

I hate when people try to look tough on internet pictures. If your life is luxurious enough to have internet access and digital cameras, then you're not too "tough" to smile for pictures. THIS IS MY SERIOUS FACE.

His picture is fine. He looks like a normal person.
 

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Get a shorter haircut....buff up those pecs....find a more relaxed smile and facial expression and you'll be beating em off mate.
 

Mr.Positive

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Wow, you kinda look like me...though younger, and probably better looking. ;)

You look fine man, there's nothing that should stop your ability from achieving whatever you should do so in life.

I'd place less emphasis on how you look, and more on taking action. Going for what you want in life.

The only suggestion I would add, is hit the weights hard and if you gained 10-20 lbs of pure muscle, you wouldn't have to do anything...the gals would be all over you. The natural confidence boost, and testosterone boost, of weights really adds to the quality of life. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BBbardot

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Nikoli said:
Get a shorter haircut....buff up those pecs....find a more relaxed smile and facial expression and you'll be beating em off mate.
shorter haircut? you want him to look like he just came back from war or something?

no no short haircut for him, althought get a better one.
( unless they are actually long and you silk them back, then yes shorter haircut.)
 

Prodigy746

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NO WAY man

You are not ugly AT ALL ... I promise i am being honest.


I would say you are 8/10 atleast (no homo)
 

loveshogun

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A) You look fine.
B) Don't sweat the details.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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