"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I a nice guy or jerk?

MKS82

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I get mixed perceptions I guess. I am going off of what girls have said to me and how I see myself acting.
Girls say:
-I am so c0cky
-confident
-great guy
-think im better than everyone else
-nice
-caring
-jerk
-push over
-arrogant
The way I act with girls:
-The last 4 girls I have dated have all been AW's to certain degrees (atleast always have a large male following.)
-help them out if I know they need it
-call them out almost immediatley if i dont like something i see
-initiate anything with them like 10% of the time (phone calls etc.)
-at first I tell them they should feel special to be with me
-i do favors.
-become very affectionate and tell them I like them

I dont know I act like a jerk at first I get the girl then I start to soften up they lose interest. They dump me so then i say fvck it and tell them to leave me alone. Then they do then they initiate contact eventually and I let them back in. Do they do this cause they know I have some jerk in me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Find a balance and become the good guy.
 

MKS82

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Just looking from my list of the top of my head it looks like have a balance i guess
 
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