Always Wear A Rubber

[BrainDamage92]

Been a long time. I got a girl pregnant. Yep I fuked up for real this time. Just take my advice. Always, always wear a rubber. Always. **** gets real in no time man, believe me. Contemplating over abortion and the **** that goes with it is a pain. Thank God the girl is cool so Ill just pay for the procedure. But thinkin bout killing my own unborn child... man... Wear a rubber

 

[The Duke]

How do you know its your baby batter that did it? I'd demand a paternity test.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

There's always adoption. People out there who can't have children would love the opportunity to adopt.

 

[Bingo-Player]

never worn one , doubt I ever will........ rubber and good sex do not mix well

no kids that im aware of yet , perhaps im infertile

 

[Julian]

come on bro you seen the movie knocked up havent u? **** can work out..

dont kill your kid bro

 

[WhiskeyTango]

It happened to me 16 years ago with a FWB who turned out to be the Antichrist. She called me 5 months after we stopped seeing each other to tell me she was 5 months pregnant. Man, that was a rough year. Paternaty test proved the child was mine. My daughter lives 800 miles away from me and I only get to see her 4 weeks out of the year. She is a great kid. Beutiful young lady. Now I wouldn't change a thing. It's ironic how these "dark periods" in our lives can turn into some of the greatest things that happen to us.

 

[Von]

Think about yourself first.

Abortion might be a great solution, especially if you feel not ready/capable

Adoption might be harder, cause when you ready to have some, you'll wonder about this one

Having the kid will change your life, you have to accept the sacrifice

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Think about yourself first.

Bingo Bango. Trust me she is! Because if having the baby was to her benefit she would be doing that instead, dude count your blessings here.

I got this female pregnant one time hb9+ but crazy as cow****t. She actually had the abortion behind my back(wanted to ride the carousel a bit longer). She would have ruined my life had she went through with it. I dodged a bullet and so have you. Yes always stay strapped my friend.

 

[Asmodeus]

I always wear a rubber. The ONE time I did not I got an STD... And I consider myself freaking lucky because it was one that was easily treated with antibiotics (made it burn when I took a pee for a couple weeks, and there was this white bad smelling $hit that was coming out of my d!ck). I learned my lesson after that, if you sex up a $lut you better wear a rubber.

Pregnancy and STDs are a real thing gents. Do not take the risk.

Fvcking these slvts without a rubber these days is like bungee jumping with the rope tied around your neck.

 

[BrainDamage92]

I am sorry for your situation. I think your post is a great service to all here.

Please know I don't wish to be insensitive in asking. If you are willing to share...
Is the woman a GF, FWB, plate, ONS? Had you slept together often? Do you know her well or not much at all? Did you always have unprotected sex together? Sometimes? Pull-out & pray?

It sounds like there is a bit of wavering on whether or not an abortion will happen. Do you feel more challenged by it than you imagined you might? What is the experience like for you, as a man?

Somewhere between a FWB and a plate since I know her for like a month, but shes very intelligent, reads alot, and is loyal so I think I can call her a friend (I consider very few girls true friends cou male-female friendship is a foggy area for me. We work great as a team tho.

Well shes actually a coworker (kinda, she sleeps at the hotel I work at) aswell. She obviously liked me when I first saw her and shes this gorgeous petite girl, juicy, but not fat in any way, amazing face, thick lips, affectionate, 19 y old, the whole package, so on our second encounter I made a move and asked her to go to her room so we can have some fun. So she said shes having her period but a few days later I slept with her and then a few days later again. Problem is, in the past year I been heavily drinking so I do alot of stupid ****.
The first night I think I used 2 condoms but the first time I did it unprotected. Shes obviously either abit naive or crazy, because when I asked about protection she said "why, I thought you guys like it better without a condom", Id bet on the former tho, because crazies are good in bed, while she was very hmm meh, and believe me, I know alot about crazy, my usual "type" is BPD girls couse Imma mama's boy so she was like a breath of fresh air. She said that her first time hurt alot so shes scared of sex, her words were "at least it didnt hurt". It got better after that, of course when I took the time to arouse her properly. Shes an artist so its normal that shes abit wierd and Im a musician so I know how it goes. I think through the drunken haze I remember noticing too little *** on her belly when I pulled out so maybe I fuked up there.
On the second night, I had only 1 condom, so I used it the first time, then I wanted to do it again, she said its a "special day" but agreed. Ofc she meant shes ovulating, bot being the drunken ****tard I am I ignored it.
So yeah after a few days she called to tell me there is a problem - she was both late with her period and got some sort of infection, probably fungal as far as the symptoms go. I believe I am not the reason, since theres nothing visibly wrong with my member (apart from being abnormally big probably going to the beach, towels whateva. So I sent her to the doctor - I was working that day. The doctor said little about the infection and perscribed her some pills to make her period start and said the medication that will treat the infection would damage the fetus if shes pregnant. The pills should work in 10 days tops. Funny thing is she did a pregnancy test earlier and it came back negative. 5 days into medication, still no change, and shes like 12 days late.

So the whole thing is a big mess. At least Im still getting *******s tho. When I asked her to give me one the words "O, I havent done that in a year" slipped which adds to the good girl image + she doesnt smoke or drink. And shes terrible at handjobs.

Now lets look at the ways she could be decieving me:
- she was already pregnant when she came to town
- she slept with someone else, who also might have given her the infection
- she is lying about the pregnancy so I can come inside her and impregnate her thinking she already is pregnant (but then why the infection thing?)
Moreover, she is going to study abroad so why pull such stunts.
I also openly talked about those things with her and observed her reaction. My BS detector was in the green. She lied to me only once about... I dont even remember what, hid a little piece of truth, I sensed it right away and called bull****, she aint a good liar.

I am sure she, in fact is pregnant, although there is still hope. And I just somehow know Im the man. Even if I aint, abortions are pretty cheap , so why bother doing DNA tests and whatnot and wasting time and money. Ill just use condoms from now on, lesson learned. For the moment Im as supportive as I can be so she doesnt freak out and decide to keep it and whatnot. Our relationship, if you can call it this way, is very light, and although I like holding her in my arms, shes not the girl for me, I know that, she desires intellectual stimulation and friendship, while I need passion.

I should stick to crazy milfs that are good in bed, srsly, little girls are not worth the hassle...

 

[BrainDamage92]

For men that don't want to ride the one the OP is on right now, remember you still have the option to avoid a pregnancy, even after you have had unprotected sex with a girl. Buy her Plan B and watch her take it. It works to insure she will get her period thus no pregnancy. The sooner she takes it the better, but it can be taken for up to 5 days after unprotected sex. The cost and any perceived inconvenience is minimal, in comparison with an unwanted pregnancy.

I know, Ive used them before. Its just that I didnt even think about the possibility of pregnancy because silly me. I was just thinking about the pregnancy test and will buy 2 from different manufacturers. Im not sure whether the pills shes taking wont affect the accuracy but Ill do it anyway. And yes shes really stressed out.

 

[Von]

I know, Ive used them before. Its just that I didnt even think about the possibility of pregnancy because silly me. I was just thinking about the pregnancy test and will buy 2 from different manufacturers. Im not sure whether the pills shes taking wont affect the accuracy but Ill do it anyway. And yes shes really stressed out.

Tell her to relax. You'll be surprised how stress can create "symptoms".

Get an abortion iif she is. It's free if you are in Canada. US? Insurance or your church (if you convert).

Stress will do more harms than any result. Show your alpha, control it. You might get a gf

 

[BrainDamage92]

Tell her to relax. You'll be surprised how stress can create "symptoms".

Get an abortion iif she is. It's free if you are in Canada. US? Insurance or your church (if you convert).

Stress will do more harms than any result. Show your alpha, control it. You might get a gf

Yeah Im doing so. Im all supportive and affectionate and promised her I will pay for the procedure if one is needed. The only weak spot is the thought of killing my kid is awful. But I gotta do what I gotta do. And I dont want a gf. Things are crazy these days, I cant give my heart to a woman anymore. This will sort itself out couse she will study abroad so shell go away in the automn. I live in Eastern Europe, but the money is not an issue, abortions are cheap.

thanks for the support tho

 

[Von]

It's crazy indeed but you can do it.

Remember this...this. There is no child, you killing nobody.

It's a decision to protect both futurs.(you and her)

 

[BrainDamage92]

But thinkin bout killing my own unborn child... man...

This something that will probably make your life unhappy with the guilt, you'll been thinking later in life, my son/daughter would been a certain age by now.

yeah I guess this is what happens when you do stupid **** -.-

 

[dutchmaster]

I use to never wear a condom unless I had to. I fvcked prob 80% of the first 20 girls I had sex with without a condom. Then at some point past that I got into a LTR and my gf went to get tested because unlike me she's responsible and it turns out I had chlamydia and gave it to her.. Ever since then I wear a condom every damn time, until I know for sure the girl has nothing lol

 

[Slash Dolo]

Never wear one. Never had an issue. Had unprotected sex so much I must be infertile or incredibly lucky.

 

[BrainDamage92]

@BrainDamage92--Did you do a test with her? What was the result?

No, I was very ill the past few days, tomorrow well go see the doctor together. Anyway if shes pregnant shell abort it.

 

[thatfeel]

I remain very skeptical about women choosing to have abortions, there's way too many single moms out there. The problem with the pregnancy process is it's so hormonal that it literally floods them with emotions. Having an abortion as a male is a clear decision, as a woman, not so much. I'm not saying women don't abort, again, just skeptical of a woman's ability to remain objective about it in bad situations like this and to respect the men's decision. I mean men basically have no 'rights' when it comes to these things.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Ok so we went to the doctor he said hes sure shes not pregnant, and hes an old guy, but still took some hmm vagina sample or whateva for testing. Problem is hes going on a vacation or something and will be back on the 16th of August. She probably missed a menstruation due to climate change.

Now I can finally cut this girl off its a relief. Yesterday we talked and she told me that Im way too pessimistic and "you're only 24 and youre crushed" (as in life has crushed me). Coming from an 18 year old girl whos biggest problems were her homeworks so far. This is untrue, and a death offence, its just that you become more cynical with time. And today shes all affectionate and all, I just removed her hands anytime she wanted to hug me. Next time it will be you dont exist for me + the John Cena hand move. Oh hell ye Im butthurt, Im all supportive and nice and **** and I get this, nobody has said anything as offensive, and she obviously doesnt understand whats wrong. But discussion will not lead to the fast break I want so I wont talk much.

Srsly little girls are a drag. Im pregnant, Im not pregnant wtf is this ****. And 0 skills in bed. I should stick to experienced women.