Always Want More

[NSUballer]

Ive been going out with my GF for 3 months. We dated for 2 months at the beginning of this year and everything was great. Now I find myself looking around more often. My GF is a great girl, attractive physically, fun, and lets me hit whenever i want, of course there are things that bother me about her. But I find myself thinking that eventually Ill break up with her. I actually want her to do something so I can break up with her. A few weeks ago I left my facebook up and she read some messages I had sent and recieved from other girls. I didnt really care though. She told me if i ever talked to them again anywhere she would end it.

Basically i feel like i can get better than her and its just a matter of time before I do. But Ive grown used to being with her. Am i being too shallow or something, should i just see how things go for the next few months or just end it?

 

[NSUballer]

anyone ever experienced this?

 

[Brians_600rr]

Bro, if u dont want to be with her anymore then you need to end it. Its as simple as that man.

good luck

 

[KontrollerX]

Just do what she would do to you and that is...

Find someone else while still being with her.

Then when you're sure that the new chick is great for you cut loose the dead weight.

Simple.

Easy.

And you don't end up without a girl and you're d!ck in your hand for a few months while you search for a new piece of pvssy.

 

[NSUballer]

Its not that I dont want to be with her. theres just things that she does that bothers the crap outta me. for instance we went to the movies last week with a bunch of friends. i rode back with my friends and she went with hers. she calls me and i tell her im just gonna stay the night there instead of going to her. then she calls me at 2am but my phone was on vibrate so i didnt see it unitl the last second. i call her back within 5 seconds and she doesnt answer. i called her 17 times within the next 5 minutes to see if anything was wrong ya know. she never answered. i go to her house at about 230 and knock on the door. her roomate answers and i go in her room and wake her azz up. i really dont trust her at all. and shes got alot of "guy friends". she always tells me that I can trust her but i dont and never will again.

 

[Lord Shinra]

Its not that I dont want to be with her. theres just things that she does that bothers the crap outta me. for instance we went to the movies last week with a bunch of friends. i rode back with my friends and she went with hers. she calls me and i tell her im just gonna stay the night there instead of going to her. then she calls me at 2am but my phone was on vibrate so i didnt see it unitl the last second. i call her back within 5 seconds and she doesnt answer. i called her 17 times within the next 5 minutes to see if anything was wrong ya know. she never answered. i go to her house at about 230 and knock on the door. her roomate answers and i go in her room and wake her azz up. i really dont trust her at all. and shes got alot of "guy friends". she always tells me that I can trust her but i dont and never will again.

And you're still with her?..... why?

And damn bro.. 17 times?

 

[NSUballer]

boredom mostly...and she works at 2 different bars that I like...she buys my drinks 95% of the time at bar #1, and at bar #2 she buys my drinks and food 100% of the time...I guess you could say Ive grown accustomed to her being my GF. and the sex is good. like almost everyday.

 

[NSUballer]

and shes a pretty girl. Ima a fvckin azzhole.

 

[Rampage]

im in basically the exact same situation. 2 months, she's hot, loves sex, i think i can do better, ect... and it's weird, i too am searching for a reason to break up with her. haha does that make us bad people? i've thot about it alot and here's what i got. The fact that we dont care if we lose our Girlfriend gives us a major advantage in the relationship, why not utalize this? If she's buying u free drinks and **** start getting them more often. the only reason u wouldn't do that before is cuz u dont want her to think ur using her and possibly break up with you...well now, WHO CARES? keep ****ing her like its your job, benefit as much as u can out of the relationship until u find that reason to break up with her then end it and find a new girl. sounds like you wouldn't have much trouble doing that. a lot of guys i know hold back from doing things they want in their relationship cuz they're afraid the girl might not like it and they dont want to risk losing her, their loss. u dont have this problem so again, benefit as much as u can. Im not saying beat her if she doesn't cook your steak to a perfect medium rare, but just dont put up with any ****.

thats my 2 cents, take it for what it is.

 

[NSUballer]

yea im talking she buys me at least one meal a day. sometimes 2. and whenever i want to drink she gets them. Believe me she gives me alot, i dont think its possible for me to get anymre outta her. oh yea and she got me 3 christmas presents to my none. one of em was a PS3 =). I kinda feel like a
sh!tbag if i break it off too soon.

She caught me talkin to other girls on facebook, even met up with one, still didnt break up. either shes really needy or she cares about me alot. I cant decide what i want though.

 

[CuZzT]

yea im talking she buys me at least one meal a day. sometimes 2. and whenever i want to drink she gets them. Believe me she gives me alot, i dont think its possible for me to get anymre outta her. oh yea and she got me 3 christmas presents to my none. one of em was a PS3 =). I kinda feel like a
sh!tbag if i break it off too soon.

She caught me talkin to other girls on facebook, even met up with one, still didnt break up. either shes really needy or she cares about me alot. I cant decide what i want though.

:rockon:

A PS3!!! Dude......

Let me get this straight - She is hot, likes to fk, and buys you sh!t all the time? She just cares about you IMO.

What is she going to get you next christmas? A Plasma? Jesus.

I wouldn't break it off until you find someone else you really like. I would not kick this girl to the curb without another girl lined up. Just my opinion. Good luck. She seems like a good girl though. You gotta do what ya gotta do though. Go with your instinct.

 

[Quiksilver]

If she's buying u free drinks and **** start getting them more often. the only reason u wouldn't do that before is cuz u dont want her to think ur using her and possibly break up with you...well now, WHO CARES? keep ****ing her like its your job, benefit as much as u can out of the relationship until u find that reason to break up with her then end it and find a new girl. sounds like you wouldn't have much trouble doing that. a lot of guys i know hold back from doing things they want in their relationship cuz they're afraid the girl might not like it and they dont want to risk losing her, their loss.

That's pathetic bro.

Man up and stop being a little *****.

True pimps don't use their girls. Be honest with yourself and her, or be a fool.

 

[Quiksilver]

yea im talking she buys me at least one meal a day. sometimes 2. and whenever i want to drink she gets them. Believe me she gives me alot, i dont think its possible for me to get anymre outta her. oh yea and she got me 3 christmas presents to my none. one of em was a PS3 =). I kinda feel like a
sh!tbag if i break it off too soon.

She caught me talkin to other girls on facebook, even met up with one, still didnt break up. either shes really needy or she cares about me alot. I cant decide what i want though.

Right...

No wonder I have it so easy these days, with bush league nutless jobs like you walking around.

Is honesty such a hard thing to live by?

 

[Rampage]

That's pathetic bro.

Man up and stop being a little *****.

True pimps don't use their girls. Be honest with yourself and her, or be a fool.

you're a ****ing moron, i never said to use her. I'm saying take full advantage of what she has to offer cuz he has nothing to lose...thats not using her. Using her would be making her do things she doesn't want to for his own benefit. How the hell did you become a moderator?

anyways, baller you're not a sh!itbag if u break up with her by any means. you wern't feelin it anymore and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that.