Last-Man-Standing
Don Juan
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Hey guys,
i have problems with my confidence. I always slip back into loser mode.
so far i have approached numerous girls in my university, 2 girls in a disco
, 1 girl sitting next to me in a park and 1 girl that was on the same train like me.
I think that after all the practise i can keep a conversation with most people.
But i am still afraid of approaching girls because i fear rejection so much.
I am also afraid of asking for phone numbers. I don't know myself why i am so afraid. The girls i approached didn't even shoot me down in a rude way.
With some of these girls i even had nice conversations and they seemed to
enjoy it too. But rigth now i'm too afraid to approach again and that after all
the practise. I still feel that i'm not good enough even though i think
that i have a lot to offer and i'm hard working to get the things i want.
Part of the problem seems to me that I'm studying law.
It seems to me that all girls there are spoiled stuck-up b1tches that are only looking for a
rich boyfriend and the guys either seem to be nerds or *******s.
That is why i don't have any friends either at the moment. The only "good"
friend i had doesn't want to hang out with me anymore because he's now banging some ugly
fat 16-years old girl and he doesn't need me anymore. Don't get me wrong i talk to guys too but it doesn't seem to work
too well neither. Maybe if i studied something else i would have had more success
Please don't hate on me i really tried to change but i always return to the same old me
Any advice would be appreciated!
Thanks in advance!
i have problems with my confidence. I always slip back into loser mode.
so far i have approached numerous girls in my university, 2 girls in a disco
, 1 girl sitting next to me in a park and 1 girl that was on the same train like me.
I think that after all the practise i can keep a conversation with most people.
But i am still afraid of approaching girls because i fear rejection so much.
I am also afraid of asking for phone numbers. I don't know myself why i am so afraid. The girls i approached didn't even shoot me down in a rude way.
With some of these girls i even had nice conversations and they seemed to
enjoy it too. But rigth now i'm too afraid to approach again and that after all
the practise. I still feel that i'm not good enough even though i think
that i have a lot to offer and i'm hard working to get the things i want.
Part of the problem seems to me that I'm studying law.
It seems to me that all girls there are spoiled stuck-up b1tches that are only looking for a
rich boyfriend and the guys either seem to be nerds or *******s.
That is why i don't have any friends either at the moment. The only "good"
friend i had doesn't want to hang out with me anymore because he's now banging some ugly
fat 16-years old girl and he doesn't need me anymore. Don't get me wrong i talk to guys too but it doesn't seem to work
too well neither. Maybe if i studied something else i would have had more success
Please don't hate on me i really tried to change but i always return to the same old me
Any advice would be appreciated!
Thanks in advance!