Always screen chicks well before you get their numbers

[rascal99v]

Went out to the bar with my sister and her friends to celebrate her new promotion. We both got there first and I decided to buy her first drink for the night. Before I did that, I saw somebody I knew so I went over and talked to him for a minute. When I started to go over to my sister, some dude was already hitting her up. The dude was semi balding and not so good looking while he was trying to lay on his phony charm. He was laying it on pretty thick from my vantage point. I thought it was funny so I let my sis handle it herself.

My sister had her body language totally showing no interest in this guy. Her facial expression and eye contact were obvious as well. Her fake smile and semi irritated polite look really showed on her face. The dude kept trying to prove to her that he was a really cool guy. Then he kept pushing for her number which she was hesitant to give. She finally gave in after he asked again. Then the dude walked away looking like he just won the lottery.

I asked her if she enjoyed her awesome conversation. She just started to laugh. I asked her why she gave her number to him? She said "Oh, he seemed nice and I didn't want to hurt his feelings here in front of his friends." I said "Yeah but now you are going to have this dude calling you." She is going to ignore his calls and has no plans to go out with this guy. That's women for ya.

So, Rascal's tip for you is to always make sure that you're screening for interest before you get the number. That will save you from getting numbers from chicks who really don't want to go out.

When you see chicks with poor body language, eye contact, irritated facial expressions, you won't get very far with them. If you have to keep pushing and prodding to get her number, that means she isn't into you. Chicks will offer their number to you if they like you. They will give it to you right away when you ask, if they want you to have it. That's the difference between girls who like you and don't.

It should be known that you should be screening for interest before you get their numbers. But some guys mistake getting the number for real interest. And they quickly forget that the body language and demeanor showed otherwise. Always screen for real interest instead of just assuming interest.

That dude walked away thinking he is going to get a date. Other men who get numbers might think they are going to get laid because they got a number. They didn't realize that other chicks do what my sister did. Giving out a number with no real interest. Always make sure that you see real interest when you're approaching and number closing. Because if you don't, you will end up calling chicks who have no real interest in going out with you.

 

[GotED?]

Given the venue that you meet women (in a bar in this case), you are not going to expect QUALITY but maybe QUANTITY.

If you want QUALITY, you have to work harder to find those women outside of LOW-QUALITY venues.

Exodus

 

[goldengoose]

yes screen women as much as you can.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Solid yet very basic advice for the newbies since they often have trouble with this.

 

[Bace]

Definitely true in the general case, and to be attached to any one interaction is asking for failure and hurt. Though, i will add, there is something to be said for the number farming game. Ask 200 girls for their numbers off the opener could prove an interesting experiment.

 

[sylvester the cat]

knowing how women are, how do you know she didn't give out her number with the full intention of getting banged hard by this guy but told you she was going to ignore him so you wouldn't make a scene?

you say she was giving IOD's but in her world may have been something different. fact remains he got her number. just saying.

i'm not going to waste my time screening whether or not a girl wants to give her number out. i'm going to go for the numbers (or more) and if they give they give and if they don't they don't.

once they give, i'll then screen if they're DTF by their responses. this is the only reliable screen there is. attempting to determine their interest based on my perception in any given circumstance has proved unreliable.

there is no way on earth that you could have known what that guy (or your sister) was thinking as he walked away. that is only your biased (wishful thinking) perception.

 

[rascal99v]

knowing how women are, how do you know she didn't give out her number with the full intention of getting banged hard by this guy but told you she was going to ignore him so you wouldn't make a scene?

you say she was giving IOD's but in her world may have been something different. fact remains he got her number. just saying.

i'm not going to waste my time screening whether or not a girl wants to give her number out. i'm going to go for the numbers (or more) and if they give they give and if they don't they don't.

once they give, i'll then screen if they're DTF by their responses. this is the only reliable screen there is. attempting to determine their interest based on my perception in any given circumstance has proved unreliable.

there is no way on earth that you could have known what that guy (or your girlfriend) was thinking as he walked away. that is only your biased (wishful thinking) perception.

:crackup:

WTF? Did you not read my thread or what?

Obiously you have no clue what you're reading or talking about. :yes:

Always screen for interest when you're talking to a chick before you get her number. No matter where you are at. Otherwise, if you get her number and she doesn't have much interest, you aren't going to get sh1t. This is basic simple sh1t here.

My sister was laughing at the dude after he left. She has no intentions of talking to him or even dating him.

The dude had a big goofy grin on his face after he walked away. He acted like he won prize.

Some people really need to understand what they read on here.

Thanks for making an ass out of yourself though.

relax OP. your butthurt response betrays self-doubt.

i read your thread.

we all know what women say and what women do are two totally different things. she says she has no intention of talking to him. it remains to be seen what she does.

dude may have approached her for a dare hence the goofy grin. truth is you don't know. you are are only surmising.

you need to understand that just because you think it's so, doesn't necessarily make it so.

i'm not saying she is interested. just saying my mind is open. you should try opening yours.

:crackup:

Why do all you guys use the word "butthurt" when people tell you off and you look like an idiot?

You got all the answers even though you weren't there to know. LOL.

You keep adding your own false opinion so keep trolling.

The thing that matters is this. My sister was giving a negative response to this guy. He kept pushing her for the number. He got the number. He was happy he got it. He thinks she is interested because he got it. A lot of men act the same way, but then find out afterwards the chick wasn't interested. That's what a lot of men do on here.

my false opinion is as valid as your false opinion OP.

my opinion is your sister was waiting to remove you from the picture before she bangs this guy harder than she's ever banged before.

yes many men find out women weren't interested after getting their numbers. but also many women who acted disinterested also changed their mind and became interested....you might want to keep your sister on a tighter leash.

:crackup: :crackup:

 

[sylvester the cat]

:crackup:

WTF? Did you not read my thread or what?

Obiously you have no clue what you're reading or talking about. :yes:

Always screen for interest when you're talking to a chick before you get her number. No matter where you are at. Otherwise, if you get her number and she doesn't have much interest, you aren't going to get sh1t. This is basic simple sh1t here.

My sister was laughing at the dude after he left. She has no intentions of talking to him or even dating him.

The dude had a big goofy grin on his face after he walked away. He acted like he won prize.

Some people really need to understand what they read on here.

Thanks for making an ass out of yourself though.

relax OP. your butthurt response betrays self-doubt.

i read your thread.

we all know what women say and what women do are two totally different things. she says she has no intention of talking to him. it remains to be seen what she does.

dude may have approached her for a dare hence the goofy grin. truth is you don't know. you are are only surmising.

you need to understand that just because you think it's so, doesn't necessarily make it so.

i'm not saying she is interested. just saying my mind is open. you should try opening yours.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Why do all you guys use the word "butthurt" when people tell you off and you look like an idiot?

You got all the answers even though you weren't there to know. LOL.

You keep adding your own false opinion so keep trolling.

The thing that matters is this. My sister was giving a negative response to this guy. He kept pushing her for the number. He got the number. He was happy he got it. He thinks she is interested because he got it. A lot of men act the same way, but then find out afterwards the chick wasn't interested. That's what a lot of men do on here.

my false opinion is as valid as your false opinion OP.

my opinion is your sister was waiting to remove you from the picture before she bangs this guy harder than she's ever banged before.

yes many men find out women weren't interested after getting their numbers. but also many women who acted disinterested also changed their mind and became interested....you might want to keep your sister on a tighter leash.

 

[escaleraroyal]

show pics of your sista or it's not true.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Numbers Are Meaningless

In order to secure a proper number close, you don't even ask for a number until you've successfully bounced a to chick to another location. If a chick is willing to go with you from the spot you initially met to say the Starbucks across the street, it's safe to assume that you've built up a minimum level of trust, comfort, and rapport. If she's willing to follow you (a complete stranger,) to another location, then it's safe to assume that she'll give you the right number and take your calls. Then you can do what AJ does and slide the chick your number and have her to call.

 

[JoeMarron]

knowing how women are, how do you know she didn't give out her number with the full intention of getting banged hard by this guy but told you she was going to ignore him so you wouldn't make a scene?

you say she was giving IOD's but in her world may have been something different. fact remains he got her number. just saying.

This is silly. Given the fact that it's his sister, he knows her body language and would have a good idea whether she was interested or not. We should all know by now that numbers don't mean sh!t