"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Always saying your Name

DJnoob

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is that a sign of interest? Chick Saying your name ALOT? while talking to you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrmoe

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It all depends on the person. If you notice her doing the same with other guys/people, then it probably means nothing. If she's just doing it with you, then yeah she might be interested.

I wouldn't put alot into the whole name calling theory. Personally, I use names in conversations whenever I talk to people (close friends or casual acquatainces alike). Makes them feel acknowleged and gives you a tiny amount of credibility over the next self-consumed person.
 

Karat

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Can be sometimes and sometimes not.

A good tip is to look out for girls who you don't know very well or that you haven't even introduced yourself to use your name when they speak to you first.

Also a good indication of interest is if your hear them talking about you to someone else, asking general little questions about you to them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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