Always "nexting"

[JdelaSilviera]

Hi,

Most of the advice in the PUA foruns is to next the girl. Really guys, is this even an advice?
I remember of Sinn saying that you can be rejected a LOT and still get the girl, from my experience it´s very common for women to be flaky, and reject you a dozen of times, and still be into you. As long as you don´t get obsessed about the girl, I think persistance is a good thing. And "rules" like the two strike can be very damaging to your game imo.

Best wishes to you all, and I really hope you get a decent woman to your life.
I think it´s the major goal for most of us

 

[kingsam]

you have simplified that to absurdity

 

[JLW]

I always thought that all of these very specific rules were really stupid. I think that the "2 strike rule" is a good thing. However, it is important to view all of these techniques as guidelines, not as absolute rules. If she strikes out twice in one way or another, it is likely that she is full of crap, but you never know. I like to give girls a LITTLE bit more of a chance. You can gauge a girl's interest in other ways. There have been times where a girl has flaked out on me twice in a row, but I knew she was very interested, and I've ended up fvcking her.

So just remember. use these little techniques as GUIDELINES, not as strict rules.

And most importantly, remember to respect yourself and not throw yourself under the bus (figuratively speaking) for any girl.

 

[mikeyb]

I remember of Sinn saying that you can be rejected a LOT and still get the girl, from my experience it´s very common for women to be flaky, and reject you a dozen of times, and still be into you.

Would you reject a girl dozens of times if you were into her? Noooo way. You probably wouldn't even reject her once but women are weird like that, no argument there. That said, if you get hung up on every girl who rejects you thinking it's "normal", you're headed for bitter disappointment. The "two strikes" rule hits a balance between these two extremes. As for the advice on this forum usually being to "next", that's because it's usually the right thing to do! It's all about playing the odds and not getting attached to any one girl.

 

[vatoloco]

Most of the advice in the PUA foruns is to next the girl. Really guys, is this even an advice?

It depends. I personally like dating (and fvcking) girls who are into me. If they're not into me, well, I move on to girls who do!

I remember of Sinn saying that you can be rejected a LOT and still get the girl, from my experience it´s very common for women to be flaky, and reject you a dozen of times, and still be into you.

Persistence *MIGHT* pay off but, at what cost? I guess if you've already called a girl 57 times to ask her out, she might just accept on that 58th call just to "get it over with" and tell you "I think you're nice but, LJBF..." to your face so that you stop calling her.

Trust me, if a chick digs you, she'll put little resistance to your advances. Some even actually help you!

As long as you don´t get obsessed about the girl, I think persistance is a good thing. And "rules" like the two strike can be very damaging to your game imo.

The rules are more about protecting the dignity and sanity of developing PUAs. By not letting your emotions control your actions via these "rules", you get a better understanding of the game. Of course, provided that you realize what's actually happening!