Dance
Don Juan
To start off, basically I was always friends with a lot of girls, I got along better with them than guys. Most of these friendships would end with the girl telling me it's too hard for her to be "just friends" with me. I don't know what I was doing to make them like that, maybe it was "people want what they can't get", maybe something different. If I knew what I was doing, I'd love to be able to share. I'm looking into it now.
I could go more into these types of scenarios, but in short, when I was 16 I made one of these friends (HB8) my girlfriend. This girl was crazy about me in the bad way, I could not stop her from leaching onto me, she was a parasite.
When we first started dating, I immediately lost contact with about 5 girls who I used to talk about on a daily basis. I thought they all were keen, so I thought they were just doing the smart thing and NCing me. A few girls I stayed in contact with before they all ended the friendships after admitting their "love" for me and that they can't deal seeing me with my girlfriend.
We dated for 13 months, and I was forced to end it as she would break down in tears every time I talked to or even looked at another girl, which was annoying due to having 3 18ths on every week and bringing her along to them.
So basically after breaking up I went on the usual sleep with as many girls as fast as you can period. I met this one girl before breaking up with my ex, and immediately after the break up, we hooked up and few times and I thought nothing more of it.
Next few times I saw this girl at parties, I got nothing from her. No IOIs, no kino, nothing. I didn't really care to be honest, I just accepted she wasn't interested anymore.
I stayed friends with this girl, we really hit it off, could talk for hours which was really nice. I did see her as just a friend, and wasn't trying to get in with her or anything.
After several months of being friends, she eventually jumped me at a party (dec 2012) while I was getting a jacket from the bedroom (which was awesome btw) and we played around for a bit, then she suddenly got up and left.
I kept talking to her for a bit, but more on and off now, but since May we have been really talking to each other a lot. She is in her final year of highschool, while I'm in my first year of uni. She is taking me to her formal and we have a holiday booked together for the end of the year. To my knowledge this was all as friends.
On Friday, I was with her and she was complaining that the friend zone is stupid, and I was explaining to her how it worked. She then told me I have no experience being in the friendzone, and I then (like an idiot) asked her to be my gf. I wasn't being serious, I was just expecting her to say "no youre a fkn idiot" and then we'd laugh and I could say "there's my experience" (we have had many conversations like this)
This time, she broke down in an emotional rage, and basically told me how she used to be really into me, and I can't keep toying with her. She then goes on to get angry about what happened in december last year saying how I was the one clearly wanted her to go away? She was really mad at me. She then said "if you ever wanted me as your girlfriend you would have done something back then." Eventually she accepted that I was just asking her so she would say no and said
"And you say you're not treating me like a toy?
You just made me go through all that bullsh1t to tell me you were proving a point. Are you sh1tting me right now?
I'm going
I feel like a joke, cheers"
This girl was constantly saying how she would make a bad gf and she isn't keen on having boyfriend. I took these as dead giveaways that she wasn't into me.
Realising this, I would love to have had a girl like this as a potential GF or FB, I just never saw her as such a thing. I asked to see her on saturday to which she said no she was busy, but then she kept persisting on talking to me, I didn't give her much reply. I eventually organised to see her for lunch on sunday and chat things over and see how they went, basically just wanted to say I'm sorry and try a bit of kino to see if it got anywhere. Of course she cancelled last minute, but she was quite persistent on a counter.
Sunday was the last day of school holidays for her before the new semester of her last year started, and she texted me sunday morning saying
"Wtf I just grounded for not doing my homework! You really should have made a bet....
I'm not allowed out till I've done it
( I'm free all of next weekend though?"
I then replied "Hahaha if you don't wanna chill just say so dude"
To which she replied "No I really want to!
But mum cracked the absolute ****s
Are you free next weekend?"
and I said "Still waiting to hear back from someone"
I haven't spoken to her since, been ignoring her.
So guys, reckon I should pursue anything with this girl, I would like to, mind you getting rejected could make things really weird since we have future plans already paid for (formal and overseas holiday)???
I could go more into these types of scenarios, but in short, when I was 16 I made one of these friends (HB8) my girlfriend. This girl was crazy about me in the bad way, I could not stop her from leaching onto me, she was a parasite.
When we first started dating, I immediately lost contact with about 5 girls who I used to talk about on a daily basis. I thought they all were keen, so I thought they were just doing the smart thing and NCing me. A few girls I stayed in contact with before they all ended the friendships after admitting their "love" for me and that they can't deal seeing me with my girlfriend.
We dated for 13 months, and I was forced to end it as she would break down in tears every time I talked to or even looked at another girl, which was annoying due to having 3 18ths on every week and bringing her along to them.
So basically after breaking up I went on the usual sleep with as many girls as fast as you can period. I met this one girl before breaking up with my ex, and immediately after the break up, we hooked up and few times and I thought nothing more of it.
Next few times I saw this girl at parties, I got nothing from her. No IOIs, no kino, nothing. I didn't really care to be honest, I just accepted she wasn't interested anymore.
I stayed friends with this girl, we really hit it off, could talk for hours which was really nice. I did see her as just a friend, and wasn't trying to get in with her or anything.
After several months of being friends, she eventually jumped me at a party (dec 2012) while I was getting a jacket from the bedroom (which was awesome btw) and we played around for a bit, then she suddenly got up and left.
I kept talking to her for a bit, but more on and off now, but since May we have been really talking to each other a lot. She is in her final year of highschool, while I'm in my first year of uni. She is taking me to her formal and we have a holiday booked together for the end of the year. To my knowledge this was all as friends.
On Friday, I was with her and she was complaining that the friend zone is stupid, and I was explaining to her how it worked. She then told me I have no experience being in the friendzone, and I then (like an idiot) asked her to be my gf. I wasn't being serious, I was just expecting her to say "no youre a fkn idiot" and then we'd laugh and I could say "there's my experience" (we have had many conversations like this)
This time, she broke down in an emotional rage, and basically told me how she used to be really into me, and I can't keep toying with her. She then goes on to get angry about what happened in december last year saying how I was the one clearly wanted her to go away? She was really mad at me. She then said "if you ever wanted me as your girlfriend you would have done something back then." Eventually she accepted that I was just asking her so she would say no and said
"And you say you're not treating me like a toy?
You just made me go through all that bullsh1t to tell me you were proving a point. Are you sh1tting me right now?
I'm going
I feel like a joke, cheers"
This girl was constantly saying how she would make a bad gf and she isn't keen on having boyfriend. I took these as dead giveaways that she wasn't into me.
Realising this, I would love to have had a girl like this as a potential GF or FB, I just never saw her as such a thing. I asked to see her on saturday to which she said no she was busy, but then she kept persisting on talking to me, I didn't give her much reply. I eventually organised to see her for lunch on sunday and chat things over and see how they went, basically just wanted to say I'm sorry and try a bit of kino to see if it got anywhere. Of course she cancelled last minute, but she was quite persistent on a counter.
Sunday was the last day of school holidays for her before the new semester of her last year started, and she texted me sunday morning saying
"Wtf I just grounded for not doing my homework! You really should have made a bet....
I'm not allowed out till I've done it
( I'm free all of next weekend though?"I then replied "Hahaha if you don't wanna chill just say so dude"
To which she replied "No I really want to!
But mum cracked the absolute ****s
Are you free next weekend?"
and I said "Still waiting to hear back from someone"
I haven't spoken to her since, been ignoring her.
So guys, reckon I should pursue anything with this girl, I would like to, mind you getting rejected could make things really weird since we have future plans already paid for (formal and overseas holiday)???
