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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Always lookin at the right eye?

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Hey I noticed that when i make eyecontact with a girl (esp when its long) i automatically/instinctivly tend to look into her right eye.
Anyone know what that means?
I once heard from someone looking into one eye means challenging someone and the other eye means friendly intentions (but i dont know which eye is which).
Anyone know anything about this I find this whole subject about eye contact interesting.
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Eye contact along with a guys voice are the most important aspects in the winning over of a hot babe, yet if a guy does it to another guy it will make him angry with you and have the completely opposite negative effect, but gazing into the eyes of a hot babe will have a much more positive and alluring effect if it is done with confidence. :up:
 

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Jez: Holding eyecontact with guys is actualy pretty fricking important. I've got this alpha guy who baged me a bit and stopped the instant I started holding his eye contact. It's pretty powerful.

I'm not talking about random people on the street or fights or anything (that's a matter of oppinion) I'm talking social situatuations. Guys like to check what you're about by verbaly sparring with you, if you keep eye contact while you answer back you'll almost definitely pass. At first you'll feal pretty gay but it works.
 

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Amigu said:
Jez: Holding eyecontact with guys is actualy pretty fricking important. I've got this alpha guy who baged me a bit and stopped the instant I started holding his eye contact. It's pretty powerful.

I'm not talking about random people on the street or fights or anything (that's a matter of oppinion) I'm talking social situatuations. Guys like to check what you're about by verbaly sparring with you, if you keep eye contact while you answer back you'll almost definitely pass. At first you'll feal pretty gay but it works.
if you always look away when you talk to a man then women will think your beta...

i had a women EC me for a freaky long time while i was talking with her but i didnt dare to flirt with her because she is a good customer and i dont wana ruin that maybe once i become good but then maybe its never a good idea to hit on customers is it?
What does it mean if a women holds EC with you for so long?

Also what does it mean when your in front of a women and the women/girl looks down?

i want to get better in understanding eye language
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There's no set interpretation for eye contact because we're all smart enough, both males and females, to mislead or bluff. Women are for the most part more comfortable staring into someones elses eyes.
 
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natralguy said:
Hey I noticed that when i make eyecontact with a girl (esp when its long) i automatically/instinctivly tend to look into her right eye.
Anyone know what that means?
I once heard from someone looking into one eye means challenging someone and the other eye means friendly intentions (but i dont know which eye is which).
Anyone know anything about this I find this whole subject about eye contact interesting.
Your right, or her right? just kidding...

Actually, THERE IS AN ASNWER.... It depends what lobe of your brain is more dominent, i.e. are you more right brain or left brain personality etc... Just like if you look at teachers, sometimes its obvious which side of the classroom they dominently talk to (i.e. give more attention to) its not cause they favor those kids, it just has to do the side of the brain that is more dominent pulls them that way...
 
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natralguy said:
so if i use mainly left brain (logic) i would look into her right eye (because that connected to her left brain)?
I am not sure which side of brain, I know for eample, motor function (movement) is contralateral, meaning if you have stroke on left side of the brain, you will loose motor function on the right..
 

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you wont find this in any science book... but the right eye absorbs emotions (negative) while the left eye expells them (positive)... thats why you influence a person by looking into their right eye and get influenced by looking into their left

looking into the right is the healthiest way to communicate... it keeps the flow of energy going
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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natralguy said:
if you always look away when you talk to a man then women will think your beta...

i had a women EC me for a freaky long time while i was talking with her but i didnt dare to flirt with her because she is a good customer and i dont wana ruin that maybe once i become good but then maybe its never a good idea to hit on customers is it?
What does it mean if a women holds EC with you for so long?

Also what does it mean when your in front of a women and the women/girl looks down?

i want to get better in understanding eye language
natralguy said:
What does it mean if a women holds EC with you for so long?
She likes what she sees? especially if she smiles

natralguy said:
its never a good idea to hit on customers is it?
Why not?

natralguy said:
Also what does it mean when your in front of a women and the women/girl looks down?
She's checking you out? or she isn't interested.

natralguy said:
didnt dare to flirt with her
By holding eye contact with her you have already flirted with her espically if you exchanged smiles flirting isnt all verbal it can be expressed with body language.
 

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thanks guys for the quality answers


I tell you why not..... because if you mess up they will never come again.
if they think your weird they may never come again.
if you insulted them they may never come again.
if you embarrassed them they may never come again.





She's checking you out? or she isn't interested.
i mean not lookin down at me just looking down away from me...sometimes she looks at me but only when we are talking or when i am not too close to her then she looks away....she is a very mysterious girl seems shy and she never smiles at me. she is around 25
i had a crush on her (and maybe still do) yeah i know AFC!



By holding eye contact with her you have already flirted with her espically if you exchanged smiles flirting isnt all verbal it can be expressed with body language.
is that how girls/women interpret it?
that women is 50 years old and the hottest women in her age ive ever seen
(i am 23) i would sleep with her over any hot girl

then there is another women (maybe about 40) who touches me and likes to talk to me and laughs about the things i say but i dont have the balls to flirt with her directly because she has a husband(also a customer).

yeah i definetly need to get better with women i just recently found out about this site so its all pretty new to me.
 
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