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hi, everybody, i'm 5'9 and 145 lbs, i have a really nice body and i've been trying to bulk up to around 155 lbs.
i started at 125 in february and at the end of may i reached 150 lbs (my goal was 155). i then had a bad diarrhea and in 2 days i lost all the water weight i had gained and got back to 135 lbs. i stopped using creatine and i ate as i liked and, unusually, i got very fast to 145 lbs in about a month (no water weight). i stopped lifting for a month and my weight was stable around 145 lbs, even though i lost a bit of fat (i got to 8% thanks to swimming, basketball and soccer).
then (it was 2 weeks ago), i began lifting again.
about a couple of days later, i started feeling always hungry. i mean, it's always like i'm starving, even though i'm always eating as usual. i can't stay more than 2-3 hours without eating, otherwise my stomach starts making noises and feels completely empty. if i don't eat for 4 hours, i feel a BIG pain in my stomach and i HAVE to find some food. i thought it was due to lifting again, so i didn't give it much importance.
then, a week ago, i lightly injured my wrist (nothing serious) and i decided to stop for 10 days. the starving feeling didn't go away

what the fùck is happening?!

i'm 18, could it be because i have not finished growing and i have entered a new cycle of growth? (my brothers, both younger than me are 6'1 [at 17 years] and 6'2 [at 14 years], while i'm just 5'9, even though i'm older, plus they look 22 and 17, while i barely look 18, maybe younger)
 

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Why don't you stop overthinking it and just eat something?

Your body wants food for any number of reasons, just listen to it.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Why don't you stop overthinking it and just eat something?

Your body wants food for any number of reasons, just listen to it.

i get it, but why is it happening? there seems to be no specific reason for needing all this food
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i get it, but why is it happening? there seems to be no specific reason for needing all this food
I promise, there IS a reason, you don't know it, I don't know it, your body knows it though, so trust it.

Maybe you ARE hitting a growth spurt again, I dunno. Just do the right thing and eat.
 

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That's normal. Just eat healthy food and follow DIESEL's plan and eat eat eat!
 

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
That's normal. Just eat healthy food and follow DIESEL's plan and eat eat eat!
but i don't need to build right now... if i were offered another 10 lbs of muscle mass, i wouldn't surely deny it, but i don't want to join another bulking phase yet... so, i don't know if eating that much will make me gain just fat...
anyway, it's just out of curiosity that i want to know if someone else has experienced this... it strikes me because i've never heard of something similar happening after you hit 15...
 

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dont complain your lucky. You have it easy gaining mass/bulking. If i could i'd eat more meals a day. But unfortunately due to my slow digestion or small stomach, i only have appetite for food only about every 4-5 hrs. At best i could eat 3-4 meals a day.
 
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