"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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always follow your gut.....

stuka1939

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I am not just talking about women here, but life in general.

I have realized your gut feeling is correct 99% of time.

If your gut tells you a woman is interested, she usually is!!

If your gut tells you that you should stick up for yourself and say something about a situation, it is usually the right thing to do.

Make a promise to yourself to follow your gut, you will be more confident.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gut feeling is like a 6th sense lol, if you get a feeling that a girl likes you 10 times out of 10 she does, good post, reminds newbs not to overanalyse what girls are doing and trust their gut n just do it
 

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I agree.

What happens is when you have gut feeling or an intuition about something you have to follow it right away.

But, few seconds later your mind starts to rationalize it and make some sense of it, which it usually ends up telling you don't follow your 6th sense.

Rationalizing or trying to understand with your logical mind the intuition you have about something is wront way to trying to understand it. Don't try to understand it or talk in your head about it. Your mind will usually try to talk you out of it.

The only way you can use your intuition is to feel it and go for it. No hesitation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I never thought sh!t could be something good!!
 

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Also some other good advice is:

Don't let oppurtunities pass you by.

you'll see an oppurtunity, chicken out and regret it for the rest of your life. oppurtinities only come once, so dont let them pass by ya bastards
 

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yeah i just read about that in the book "the richest man in babylon" which is a really good book about money and stuff.

basically the setting is a bunch of guys talking about luck and how a man can create good luck for themselves. they determined that men who seem to be lucky are actually just men of action, when an opportunity presents itself they take it and use it immediately. Men who appear to be unlucky hesitate and take too long trying to make a decision whether they should take it and then the opportunity is just gone.

basically while its slightly unrelated :p there isnt lucky and unlucky people, only those who make the best of their situation and take advantage of opportunities and those who do not.
 
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