"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Always assume shes intrested!

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Its not a good principle to generalize conclusions from a particular girl.

But your principle is not bad at all. I would rather say:

Always assume you can get the girl
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The girl teasing you could be her trying to get your attention as well as a **** test to see if you will take her crap.
 
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awesome tip dude i sure am going to try this tip out. Thanks dude. I bet this is really going to help, awesome tip again. =)
 
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Docs posted a principle like this a long time ago. AAA (Always Assume Attraction)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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a good way to test if a girl is interested is pre-kino (which is not actually touching her but invading her personal space) after u have a healthy re pore and if she moves back she's not interested (but donut go standing on top of her either
that will turn her off)
 
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Thanks for the tip Capt. Jack!

This is a good reminder for us here - remember, not every girl is as confident and outgoing as we would like to be. Just because we have a list of "signs she is interested" doesn't mean they will tick them off and display them all when they're around you.

Like us (or previous versions of ourselves), they may also become shy, and anxious and try to hide their signs of interest. The best remedy, is for us to assume that she is, and seeing that you're comfortable displaying signs of interest towards her, might lead her to reciprocate.
 
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