"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alternatives to bars/clubs.

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I'm in my 20s and don't drink or party, just isn't for me. Usually I find women in the city, at coffee shops, bookstores, malls, shopping centers, etc. but I'm looking to increase my chances. Anywhere else I can look? And no internet dating, I'm looking for hotties not desperate women with kids.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bump this -- I'm getting sick of having to fight through 3 friends (one of which is almost always guaranteed to be a chubby friend c-block) to talk with someone at a bar. I hate dealing with sets, and all you find at bars/clubs are sets.

I've had some luck with coffee shops, but really I'm curious where people have had success meeting women who are receptive to being met (if that makes any sense). Women I talk to at a Starbucks, for example, seem 90% "want to get on with my day, stop bothering me" v. 10% "sure, I'll chat a minute." I'd kind of like to find a place where those odds are a little better.
 
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