"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alternatives to bars/clubs.

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I'm in my 20s and don't drink or party, just isn't for me. Usually I find women in the city, at coffee shops, bookstores, malls, shopping centers, etc. but I'm looking to increase my chances. Anywhere else I can look? And no internet dating, I'm looking for hotties not desperate women with kids.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bump this -- I'm getting sick of having to fight through 3 friends (one of which is almost always guaranteed to be a chubby friend c-block) to talk with someone at a bar. I hate dealing with sets, and all you find at bars/clubs are sets.

I've had some luck with coffee shops, but really I'm curious where people have had success meeting women who are receptive to being met (if that makes any sense). Women I talk to at a Starbucks, for example, seem 90% "want to get on with my day, stop bothering me" v. 10% "sure, I'll chat a minute." I'd kind of like to find a place where those odds are a little better.
 
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