"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alternative Videos/Movies to The Secret

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After watching The Secret over a month ago I came to understand the simple nature of the relationship between man and his surrounding environment. While there may be a lot of "spiritual stuff" in the movie you can simply look past that for its infinite wisdom in the common sense it presents.

I am curious as to know if there are any other movies/videos that are readily found on the net similar to this movie. I have watched it 4 times now and am looking to find alternative forms of it so as to create a habit of watching it or something similar once a week. I have enough books and audiobooks to last me decades so I am not looking for those. More specifically, I am looking for videos by some of the speakers presented in The Secret or people with similar messages.

The more videos the better as reading and listening alone doesn't quite do it for me in most cases. IE: I learned so much more from watching deangelo vids way back when than from reading his books.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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