"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alternative Sleep Schedules

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I thought the community may find this interesting...

I just heard about these today, and they sound pretty incredible. Apparently you can sleep as little as 2-3 hours a day and be perfectly refreshed by training your body to go directly into REM sleep (essentially by depriving yourself of sleep for the first week). There are two popular ones I was researching...

Uberman Sleep Schedule - six 20-30 minute naps every 4 hours. It's supposed to be extremely difficult to get into this rhythm, most people fail. But the people that do get on this schedule seem to love it. They say they feel incredibly refreshed from just 2-3 hours of sleep, and have tons of extra free time.

Everyman Sleep Schedule - one core sleep of 1-4 hours, and between two and four 20-30 minute naps (# depends on length of core sleep) throughout the day. Apparently this is a much easier schedule to get on, but consequently doesn't give quite as much free time.


I'm really intrigued by this, and I'd like to give it a try. Has anyone ever tried one of these? If so, I'd really like to hear about your experience. If you've never heard of it and you're interested and want more info, just google "uberman sleep schedule". Steve Pavlina has a blog about when he tried it out, definitely makes for an interesting read.

Also....I'm curious what effect this little sleep would have on muscle growth....any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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apparently great men in history have done the uberman; Churchill and I think Edison were the most notable

Steve Pavlina also did this and vouches for it. He details every day for a couple months about how hard it was to get started, and how awesome it was once he got into the rhthym...
but one of the reasons he quit (not that it wasn't working) was that he could never sleep with his wife. valid reason IMO
 
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