Short statements and tools I found usefull:
Always have two or more concious options. That way you won’t fall in love. If you find yourself with just one option cut down the contact until you have a second one.
If it seems like you are loosing her either next her so you don’t make a scene or get hurt or if you know her quiet well then fake next her. That means push her away and ignore her for the rest of the evening. You might find a new e-mail next morning of her explaining herself and asking for your forgiveness even if she was “right” and you were “wrong”
Experiment with sexual auras. While talking to her and looking her in the eyes, simply smile and think about something sexual you would like to do to her. I explained to a female friend of mine that I could turn on and off her attraction towards me and changed back and forth between thinking something innocent and something sexual. She was stunned, it worked^^
You don’t have to be happy to smile. Smile and watch yourself becoming happier!
Don’t go out with the goal to get laid. Choose a goal that is independent of others, like having a good time, dancing like crazy or whatever. You’ll make everything else much more likely to happen that way.
If you want to practice approaching, don’t try to find a battleplan for the whole night. Focus on the first approach. You need an initial ice breaker. You don’t need to imagine the whole night with your planned 252846 approaches.
It’s been said that you have to work to earn money and if you are lucky you might kinda like your job. I say you are double lucky because you can take one of your hobbies, turn it into your job and as a byproduct you even get money for it.
Optimism is like dancing in the rain. People are going to think you are foolish and you’ll get sick but you know that it’s not just going to make you stand out but will strengthen your immune system in the long run.
One guy asked me how I know that every woman wants sex as much as men do with my limited knowledge. I told him that it really doesn’t matter if it’s true or not. It matters that I believe it to be true, thus I don’t see women as angels and treat them as human beings.
Who is smarter, the DJ or the PUA? The guy who does what makes him happy. Which I define as a DJ. Thus the happy PUA is a DJ but the bitter PUA is merely an AFC with certain skills.
The most important thing for an AFC to transform into a DJ is not GETTING information. It’s SEEKING it.
I always wondered why most people don’t seek happiness. It’s because they focus on avoiding unhappiness.
When you play a game for the first time you can’t loose because you expect to play worse than everybody else. But if you think you are the best you can only loose. That’s how you can tell that most people believe to be experts in love affairs.
Courage doesn’t mean to surpress or destroy your fears. It means to accept and deal with them.
Not being able to forgive is bad. Forgiving other people is good. Forgiving yourself is better.
Sometimes you have to seek the student and not the master in order to learn. For in learning we teach and in teaching we learn.
Have you ever seen a house where they didn’t build the foundation first? So why are you trying to approach this HB8 if you can’t even hold eye contact with strangers yet?
Potential has to be realized first, then developed.
Walking away with a smile is just as important as going in with it. I also mean a smile on the inside.
Life is 3 Dimensional. Sometimes it’s better to turn around instead of fighting an uphill battle.
Using the right rules is going to get you this and this far. Knowing when to break them will bring you as far as you like.
The good news is that you don’t need to learn the DJ skills. You just have to remember them. The secret of the natural is not to think all the time but rather let his unconcious mind work. It aleady knows what is best so don’t always limit it.
Double the pride, double the fall. But you can’t fall without fear because you know that failure is necessary to learn. Thus, without fear, there is no pride. Just warm confidence.
Always have two or more concious options. That way you won’t fall in love. If you find yourself with just one option cut down the contact until you have a second one.
If it seems like you are loosing her either next her so you don’t make a scene or get hurt or if you know her quiet well then fake next her. That means push her away and ignore her for the rest of the evening. You might find a new e-mail next morning of her explaining herself and asking for your forgiveness even if she was “right” and you were “wrong”
Experiment with sexual auras. While talking to her and looking her in the eyes, simply smile and think about something sexual you would like to do to her. I explained to a female friend of mine that I could turn on and off her attraction towards me and changed back and forth between thinking something innocent and something sexual. She was stunned, it worked^^
You don’t have to be happy to smile. Smile and watch yourself becoming happier!
Don’t go out with the goal to get laid. Choose a goal that is independent of others, like having a good time, dancing like crazy or whatever. You’ll make everything else much more likely to happen that way.
If you want to practice approaching, don’t try to find a battleplan for the whole night. Focus on the first approach. You need an initial ice breaker. You don’t need to imagine the whole night with your planned 252846 approaches.
It’s been said that you have to work to earn money and if you are lucky you might kinda like your job. I say you are double lucky because you can take one of your hobbies, turn it into your job and as a byproduct you even get money for it.
Optimism is like dancing in the rain. People are going to think you are foolish and you’ll get sick but you know that it’s not just going to make you stand out but will strengthen your immune system in the long run.
One guy asked me how I know that every woman wants sex as much as men do with my limited knowledge. I told him that it really doesn’t matter if it’s true or not. It matters that I believe it to be true, thus I don’t see women as angels and treat them as human beings.
Who is smarter, the DJ or the PUA? The guy who does what makes him happy. Which I define as a DJ. Thus the happy PUA is a DJ but the bitter PUA is merely an AFC with certain skills.
The most important thing for an AFC to transform into a DJ is not GETTING information. It’s SEEKING it.
I always wondered why most people don’t seek happiness. It’s because they focus on avoiding unhappiness.
When you play a game for the first time you can’t loose because you expect to play worse than everybody else. But if you think you are the best you can only loose. That’s how you can tell that most people believe to be experts in love affairs.
Courage doesn’t mean to surpress or destroy your fears. It means to accept and deal with them.
Not being able to forgive is bad. Forgiving other people is good. Forgiving yourself is better.
Sometimes you have to seek the student and not the master in order to learn. For in learning we teach and in teaching we learn.
Have you ever seen a house where they didn’t build the foundation first? So why are you trying to approach this HB8 if you can’t even hold eye contact with strangers yet?
Potential has to be realized first, then developed.
Walking away with a smile is just as important as going in with it. I also mean a smile on the inside.
Life is 3 Dimensional. Sometimes it’s better to turn around instead of fighting an uphill battle.
Using the right rules is going to get you this and this far. Knowing when to break them will bring you as far as you like.
The good news is that you don’t need to learn the DJ skills. You just have to remember them. The secret of the natural is not to think all the time but rather let his unconcious mind work. It aleady knows what is best so don’t always limit it.
Double the pride, double the fall. But you can’t fall without fear because you know that failure is necessary to learn. Thus, without fear, there is no pride. Just warm confidence.