Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Alright we all need a religion of a sort!!!

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Reading more and more of sosuave, it appears to me the only way out of the matrix is perhaps finding a religious partner. At least with a religious partner, you the "fear of god" may prevent them from engaging in immoral acts ;) So fellas, find a church-- if you don't have one...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NO

Religion won't help you, religion at it's CORE, is all about CONTROL. If God exists, it really wouldn't matter ANYWAY because he has no DIRECT INVOLVEMENT in our present day life. You might not like this, but it's so.

If God exists it wouldn't matter until we died anyway as then we would be PUNISHED for our "sins." But wait a minute, the Holy Bible says that if you repent to God, because Jesus died for our sins, all of our sins are forgiven...so then why stop sining then?

Sorry, God is nothing more than another Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, and Hulk Hogan (old WWF when you were 2 years old and thought it was real lol).

Instead of becoming "religious" become "human."

The more "human" you become the more you will enjoy "human life." lol

>> Eliminate bullshyt theories
>> Stop sterotyping everything
>> Let go and just learn how to SMILE and KEEP SMILING through it all.

If shyt happens becoming pissed off WON'T CHANGE IT, actually becoming pissed off HINDERS you from DEALING WITH IT.

Learn how to just be "human" that is, love yourself, love your surroudnings, love other people, and DEAL with ANYTHING that comes at you STRAIGHT ON.

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John-467 said:
NO

Religion won't help you, religion at it's CORE, is all about CONTROL. If God exists, it really wouldn't matter ANYWAY because he has no DIRECT INVOLVEMENT in our present day life. You might not like this, but it's so.

If God exists it wouldn't matter until we died anyway as then we would be PUNISHED for our "sins." But wait a minute, the Holy Bible says that if you repent to God, because Jesus died for our sins, all of our sins are forgiven...so then why stop sining then?

Sorry, God is nothing more than another Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, and Hulk Hogan (old WWF when you were 2 years old and thought it was real lol).

Instead of becoming "religious" become "human."

The more "human" you become the more you will enjoy "human life." lol

>> Eliminate bullshyt theories
>> Stop sterotyping everything
>> Let go and just learn how to SMILE and KEEP SMILING through it all.

If shyt happens becoming pissed off WON'T CHANGE IT, actually becoming pissed off HINDERS you from DEALING WITH IT.

Learn how to just be "human" that is, love yourself, love your surroudnings, love other people, and DEAL with ANYTHING that comes at you STRAIGHT ON.

:up:
Good stuff again, J.
 

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If a disease came out tomorrow and killed every man women and child in the space of a few weeks.

The universe would still continue to exist.

The problem with religion' it applies everything is subject to the human condition, we have made the mistake of getting to ingrosed with our own self importance.

If we all died tomorrow, the world would still spin around.

God would not say 'fuc*, i guess i will have to pack it all up now'.

It will still exist, its just that peolpe think this:
God would not say 'fuc*, i guess i will have to pack it all up now'.

Also the OP, sounds like he wants a slave rather then a long term partner, i did not mention marriage because, well alot of people know why, read my marriage threads.
 

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Religions were ultimately created to benefit those who created them (people, not some monarch in the sky) to give their servants something to live for and to keep 'em in line. Most were cast in the form of a kingdom with a moderately despotic monarch, because that's what the people knew at the time, and how the leaders wanted people to follow them (under the guise of "following God").

Nowadays, many, if not most, people turn to religion as a sort of "cosmic equalizer" to right the wrongs they see going on all around them. Problem is, that makes them more likely to tolerate such bullshit because "they'll get theirs in hell." Also to simplify ethical dilemmas by having a straightforward code to fall back on.

But if you don't call out those who dump bullshit on everyone else to enrich themselves, they'll keep right on doing it. And no set of rules, however well-conceived, is perfect. That's why I'm not religious.

Spirituality, however, is a whole 'nother thing. That's between you and the forces and beings that make up this world. One doesn't need religion to be spiritual, and if religion genuinely helps one's spiritual being, fine for them. It just doesn't happen to work for me ... except, perhaps for the Church of Sub-Genius.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bon said this,

"Spirituality, however, is a whole 'nother thing. That's between you and the forces and beings that make up this world. One doesn't need religion to be spiritual..."

(Calls da Waitress):
Yeaa baby, get my boy a beer for his excellent reply!

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Learn how to just be "human" that is, love yourself, love your surroudnings, love other people, and DEAL with ANYTHING that comes at you STRAIGHT ON.
That fits with my bit like 2 ends of a puzzle, J. :up: We'll trade beers on it. I'll get you a Bud Light, and you get me Gulden Draak Trippel Ale. :p
 

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After John has about 12 Bud Lights and I have about 2 Gulden Draaks it'll be more like a meeting of the mindless ...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mindlessness... its a grand state of mind
You have attained chick logic satori, iqqi :up: (Bon blows kiss, misses elusive target by 2 meters ...)
 

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Proselytizing.

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