Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So fellas, find a church-- if you don't have one...Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Good stuff again, J.John-467 said:NO
Religion won't help you, religion at it's CORE, is all about CONTROL. If God exists, it really wouldn't matter ANYWAY because he has no DIRECT INVOLVEMENT in our present day life. You might not like this, but it's so.
If God exists it wouldn't matter until we died anyway as then we would be PUNISHED for our "sins." But wait a minute, the Holy Bible says that if you repent to God, because Jesus died for our sins, all of our sins are forgiven...so then why stop sining then?
Sorry, God is nothing more than another Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, and Hulk Hogan (old WWF when you were 2 years old and thought it was real lol).
Instead of becoming "religious" become "human."
The more "human" you become the more you will enjoy "human life." lol
>> Eliminate bullshyt theories
>> Stop sterotyping everything
>> Let go and just learn how to SMILE and KEEP SMILING through it all.
If shyt happens becoming pissed off WON'T CHANGE IT, actually becoming pissed off HINDERS you from DEALING WITH IT.
Learn how to just be "human" that is, love yourself, love your surroudnings, love other people, and DEAL with ANYTHING that comes at you STRAIGHT ON.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That fits with my bit like 2 ends of a puzzle, J.
We'll trade beers on it. I'll get you a Bud Light, and you get me Gulden Draak Trippel Ale. Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You have attained chick logic satori, iqqi
(Bon blows kiss, misses elusive target by 2 meters ...)