Alright, twirking and dancing is fun in all, but how do you get action at the club?

[ElStud]

Well, me and my boys went out to the club today. It was mostly black girls, a few them which I did think were sexy. One thing I notice at these clubs is most guys just try to twirk and stuff and while that's great, it won't help you get anywhere with the girl, as that's just her getting validation.

I went there in a suit and literally had a girl say "Come on" grab my hand and twirk me. But twirk is twirk. How can you actually make sh*t happen at clubs? How can you make sh*t sexual at clubs? Like you know, getting makeouts and that kind of stuff from girls, maybe even lead to sex?

I also have a problem where I'm afraid of going up and starting a convo with a girl if she's dancing. I feel since the music is so damned loud and I don't yell loud enough, she won't hear me. Also, what do you overall talk about in the club once you get her attention?

Another problem I have is that a lot of girls are in groups at clubs. So if that's so, how can I isolate a girl from a group of friends? I'd like to know this.

One of the positive things though. is I could tell that a lot of girls were checking me out at the club. I even had this one point where I was dancing by myself, having fun and being alpha, where a group of girls literally surrounded me. But I just don't know how to lead things to sex in a club situation.

I'm pretty good with day game, but night game is a mystery to me.

 

[ElStud]

Guess I can't get any advice on this.

 

[scrouds]

What the **** is a twirk?

 

[vachir]

u can just dance with them dont approach from behind its creepy.

then escalate while dancing. then makeout if good. **** in bathroom if better.

sometimes u get further if u approach outside of dance floor, then tell her to dance. the dance part is great for getting in the touchy feeling its always make the k-close a lot easier

 

[ElStud]

What the **** is a twirk?

haha, must not from around Ohio, it's getting a girl to grind. I think the correct way to spell is twerk tho.

Is there anyway to game them without grinding tho? Like just talk to them and then escalate?

 

[goodfoot]

Technically, guys don't twerk, unless they're gay.

 

[ElStud]

Technically, guys don't twerk, unless they're gay.

And is twerking the topic, no. There's a word for posting stuff that has little to do with the topic, trolling.

 

[clos]

I'm no pro on the night scene however I can tell you this. Don't be afraid to go up to them. I was for a while but then I realized that if they say no, hey life goes on and you might not see them again. Without grinding it might be hard to escalate things. Whenever I have made out with a girl it was after grinding and she kind of led me onto to it. Know if you want sex, I really can't help you there. Also, don't be awkward in between songs, whenever there is downtime and your waiting for the music to start back up, talk to her! Even if it's small talk you don't want to be standing there just waiting for the music.
Girls in groups are the hardest. You should have other guys there with you or something because they are the hardest to approach especially if it's just you by yourself. Also, if there friends are having fun they are less likely to leave and not feel strange if it's just dancing with her surrounded by her friends. Hope this helps.

 

[oakraiderz2]

No one twerks...its 2009, not 1999. You dont have to get it on at the club. You clearly have no game. Get her to hang out afterwards. You should probably try to kiss a girl before you think about gettin head in a club.

 

[goodfoot]

And is twerking the topic, no. There's a word for posting stuff that has little to do with the topic, trolling.

Fine, here's a tip. If you're "twerking" in the club, chicks will tend to get turned off, hence no action. If you had chicks coming and grabbing you, it would be ridiculously easy to isolate. Just grab her hand and say, "Follow me."

 

[FirefighterMD]

"Hey this is getting kind of lame, let's get out of here."

 

[Allurre]

You don't need to even TRY hard when you're in a club. It's a perfect environment to communicate 90% non verbally and 10% verbally -- since the music drowns your convo right away.

I would advise you to isolate her to somewhere quiet. Leave dancing alone if you can't move.

Then, tell her how she carries a great vibe in the club and you just wanted to let her know.

Then, number close. don't ask for her digits... say...

"I like your vibe and find it healthy to be around. Let's hang out sometime. (Reach out for phone) Don't give me your number, your e-mail will do."

Notice how I didn't ask for the number...that helps establish the comfrot level to proceed in punching in her e-mail. She might even just give her number.

Of course, the 'no number' part is unnecessary.

 

[PeeGee]

clubgame is ridiculous

isolate
close

the end

 

[hover411]

my experience with positive results.......

there are girls that are there to dance and will grind with you hot n heavy, that have no intention of hooking up. just use them for the fun dancing, you can usually tell if they are just exhibitionists that want to have everyone's attention.

then there are girls that actually dig you, grind with you and do expect you to escalate. they will usually give you cues that they are really into you.

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grinding nonstop until she is tired and leaves you is NOT the way to do it.

you gotta lead, cut the dance short, and invite her for a drink with you. it is a small investment to isolate her and see if she is interested in you.