"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alright, this one has me stumped

WhitePimp

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I hate coming on here with something stupid but I am absolutely stumped by this girl's behavior and any analyzation would be awesome.

I went out with her Monday after our last classes (like 9 PM). We went to a bar that she knew because she lives down in the area. We go there, drink a bit, and talk for a few hours. There's tons of kino and honestly, probably the best conversation I've ever had with a girl first time out. She was just fun and engaging and I was kicking it hard. We leave and hang in her car for a bit, where we proceed to makeout pretty heavily. She says "when we can hang out again?" I tell her I'm busy Tuesday and Wednesday (which I was) and Thursday's cool. We makeout again for a bit, etc and I exit. ;)

Tuesday, I text her saying I'm done practice by 9 if she wants to come over after. No answer from her at all. I call her today and get the machine and leave a message. She texts me back saying she has to babysit until 10 and she'll call me after. She doesnt call. Basically, this chick is nexted unless she really ****ing pulls some awesome stunts...:cheer:

She obviously lost interest or turned psychotic somewhere, but I really have no idea where. I'm not too disturbed or pissed off as we only went out once, but honestly, my curiousity is killing me and I'm dying to know where I went wrong. I really have no idea with this one. I'm pretty laid back and nonchalant about these things and I don't think I came off desperate although the text thing really pissed me off at first (texting is the devil :crazy: ) and my negative vibes might've floated through the ****ing atmosphere or something nuts...but again, on the phone or text I was extremely calm. Maybe I really just need to tease the **** out of this girl.

Experts...solve this! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexxyback

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A girl doesn't call you once and she's 'psychotic'? I think you are overreacting.
 

kdnash82

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I agree with sexxyback. Sounds like you two really hit it off. Maybe she really is busy. Chill for a little while and wait for her to call again. When she does, set up another meeting. Good luck
 

Themanthatcan

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NOOOO. Dude- this is where she's reeling you in. Don't fall for it! Take a step back and get a good look at the situation. And yes. Tease her. Neg hit her. If an oportunity arises, you jump on it. This establishes a sense of superiority over her and dubs you the leader or man in the relationship. If it's getting hard, just try to keep busy. Set stuff up for you to do. Be busy until her little game is over.(Hopefully 2 weeks to a month at most). Good luck.
 
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