Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
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How do you cold approach without coming off autistic?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alright...a basic question
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't go into an approach with a mindset of trying to achieve anything. Talk to women as people and try to have fun. It's authentic and fun interactions that generate the best success. But not all women are open to it, so don't let negative people bring you down either.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
ive only ever cold approached.. it called "talking" sometimes "observational flirting" , so I cant help you.