"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alpha Woman With Beta Orbiters

taiyuu_otoko

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Imagine if you will, the following situation.

Two women are in a group.

One woman is slightly more attractive than the other. The less attractive woman is being completely ignored.

The more attractive woman is clearly at the center of attention. The beta chumps around her clearly hang on her every word. Hoping to impress her with how cool and funny they think she is.

Got that picture?

Now see it for real:

Bow Down and Submit To Your Overlords
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They're politicians - maybe they just want her vote. You can never really tell with a politicians...

I worked with state senators for several years. I always found them to be a lot like high school students: overly concerned with what their peers think of them, constantly trying to impress everyone with their style of dress, always bickering and gossiping.

I'm convinced that only a certain type of person runs for public office. They always say that it's because they want to serve their communities, but I think it's because they're shallow, insecure and desire power over others.
 

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She probably won't want to do the do the deed with these and these guys probably wouldn't want it with her either. All parties have other options because of money and status.
 
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