"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good example of coolness and indifference, but he's really lacking charisma and failing to build rapport.

The big problem with these videos is that the chicks are already into him in a big way and making all the moves, but it doesn't show how he got them so interested.

It is a good example of how to act around attention wh0res or girls who have rejected you, however.
 

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This is great but...
This was written! I bet the script writer is damn good with women. Now this is how an interaction should go but 90% of the time it won't.
But yea theres definitely some stuff to be learned by Mr. Moody
 

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Those are awful examples because it's all seem very fake. This is the main reason why I don't watch much television anymore because once you develop good social skill, you can tell easily how fake tv are.

I'll give you newbies a little tip. If you want to learn from examples, I suggest you watch some reruns of reality dating shows like The Blind Date or Fifth Wheel because those are REAL LIFE. Not all of them are great and some you can learn what not to do.

Some examples:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuSD8iZC2Bk&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opw9-i6r8dc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFzGU_OjpmQ&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-3ABUIdPBw&feature=related

There's one episode that shows how to pull off the jerk behavior. It's with this buff guy with tattoos on spring break. His date ditches him in the middle and he goes off and picked up a random blond and takes her back to his hotel room. All in one night. I don't know where on the web it is, but if I find it I'll post it here.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Speculator E said:
Those are awful examples because it's all seem very fake. This is the main reason why I don't watch much television anymore because once you develop good social skill, you can tell easily how fake tv are.

I'll give you newbies a little tip. If you want to learn from examples, I suggest you watch some reruns of reality dating shows like The Blind Date or Fifth Wheel because those are REAL LIFE. Not all of them are great and some you can learn what not to do.

Some examples:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuSD8iZC2Bk&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opw9-i6r8dc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFzGU_OjpmQ&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-3ABUIdPBw&feature=related




Uh, please don't tell me you are so dumb as to believe that those are real life. Look. Agencies give the casting directors names of actors who are willing to do the shows. You get interviewed. It is a stepping stone to other shows. It is totally fake. Most of the guys are gay to begin with.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ncNIVHJLo0&feature=related
Uh, they just go right by the fact that one of the most famous entertainers of the 20th Century wanted to be an entertainer! FAKE! The old Dating Game was a launching pad for many famous entertainers.
 

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allbeef said:
Uh, please don't tell me you are so dumb as to believe that those are real life. Look. Agencies give the casting directors names of actors who are willing to do the shows. You get interviewed. It is a stepping stone to other shows. It is totally fake. Most of the guys are gay to begin with/
So, you know this personally that's it a bunch of actors or are you just making assumptions. What are your sources?
 

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So, you know this personally that's it a bunch of actors or are you just making assumptions. What are your sources?
You are doomed in this life.

http://www.crazykelvin.com/pages/media.htm
Just one example. A classic actor. He is even represented. He has been on a number of different shows and commercials.

I am curious. How old are you? Just wondering.
 

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As stated already the views don't give multi-dimensions cuz the main character is already an established badass. So there's no rapport or anything in that vein.

And the Bollywood above me is pretty lame too.....
Don't worry, MG to the rescue!


Here are some pretty thorough videos that you might want to add the the OP, tryst type:
If anyone has seen American History X, you know how badass Edward Norton is in it. This guy Entropy goes over a scene shot-by-shot, so it's nice and in depth.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYh7UmVSgk0


Same concept except this time with Casino Royale

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPJCByTd2F4


Sean Connery in Goldfinger
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CuAz6DXUopw
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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