"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alpha Male Subliminal Training - Thoughts?

foolyoufool

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Hey all, what do you guys think of this "Alpha Male Subliminal Training Set" sold by Indigo Mindlabs? For those who don't know, you basically listen to a special track (either the sound of a trickling stream, or a noise too high pitched to consciously hear) for 8-12 hours a day, mostly when sleeping, and it is supposed to make you more "Alpha" by the end of the training. There are 6 stages and each stage is 32 days, so thats like a 6 month program.

There's a forum on the site where people post their stories, and lots of them say that they actually found improvement with this product. I was skeptical, so I asked my marketing and psychology professors what they thought about subliminal messaging, and they both told me they think its bogus. It's possible these people's improvements could just be a placebo effect then.

One thing though is that there's a thread where a guy used a "grow bigger breasts" subliminal on his wife without her knowing, and she actually grew. So that one is tough to explain. Anyway does anyone have any experience with this product? The site also gives out a bunch of subliminals for free like a "confidence booster" subliminal, because they are so confident in their product.

Link to the product:

http://subliminal-shop.com/product/alpha-male-5-0/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In Russia, and most other countries, technology of training special forces soldiers is pretty advanced. Mind of a man is where it's at. They now have, and that is only what is admitted they have, machines that hook up to a head of a trained soldier, and remove psychological bugs, that make him bad.

But that is Russian special forces, or spetsnas. American spetsnas took a crap in Afghanistan and not just once.

I think, and this is just my opinion, the product you are describing is bogus. Stories you read too could be bogus, put there by trolls with paychecks at that company.

To be alpha you must be born and grow up alpha. You could never become alpha if you was born and raised beta. But you could approach being alpha pretty close. All you need is a boy friend alpha male with whom you could hang out, drink together, do whatever together. You will imitate his behavior, naturally, and become an alpha male yourself.

So don't look for women, look for men.
 

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Alpha is just a mind set. You don't need to be born with it to come about it. We can all change the way we think if we wish. Learn to control your emotions and thoughts and a new world will reveal its self in front of you....
 

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adam225 said:
Alpha is just a mind set.

Mind set in the early childhood and teenage life shapes a lot of things, like the size of your ****. A woman may wish to become a man, but it will never happen, she doesn't have hormones for it. Being alpha is a natural thing, nature made, the rest is just mimicking. Mimicking is alright too, it is a natural thing in nature. Mimic as much alpha as you wish, but with a 1 inch **** and 40 second intercourse for example, things speak for themselves.
 

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I agree that a lot of your personality is wrote into you from an early age. But, there is nothing to say it can't be rewrote by becoming more aware. All you have to do is be prepared to change and be open minded. Every man on earth in suitable mental health could be "alpha" if he wished. But, is every man open minded enough to do so ?? It's all in how you think. You are what ever you believe you are.... nothing else...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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adam225 said:
Alpha is just a mind set. You don't need to be born with it to come about it. We can all change the way we think if we wish. Learn to control your emotions and thoughts and a new world will reveal its self in front of you....

Pretty much this. Yes, it's easier if you were raised "alpha", but someone coming to this site as a 16 or 20 year old raised "beta", your journey will be more difficult and enduring, but there is no reason why you cannot eventually achieve the same results. Master through repetition and practice. Yes, there is more emphasis on the nurture part of nature vs nurture when you're young, because you are extremely impressionable and that's just how children are (and the way you're raised, especially when it comes to father figures has a lot to do with that), but through nurture you can still change yourself even past your adolescence.

Who you are is only the manifestation of your past life experiences that have shaped you to be the person you are today, you have no real "personality" that's in a binary state. Once you realize that "who you are" and that "personality" of yours is in a constant state of fluctuation, you can realize how easily you can change it. I say easy because its a simple yes/no decision, but ultimately will require hard work and more importantly, time.

As for that "subliminal training", it's most likely dependent on the placebo effect of your mind. You need to actually go out there and train yourself, not rely on some .mp3 sold by some company to do it for you.
 

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Brighty said:
Who you are is only the manifestation of your past life experiences that have shaped you to be the person you are today, you have no real "personality" that's in a binary state. Once you realize that "who you are" and that "personality" of yours is in a constant state of fluctuation, you can realize how easily you can change it. I say easy because its a simple yes/no decision, but ultimately will require hard work and more importantly, time.

As for that "subliminal training", it's most likely dependent on the placebo effect of your mind. You need to actually go out there and train yourself, not rely on some .mp3 sold by some company to do it for you.
I agree, I definitely think its possible for someone to change with life experiences, even if it may take them longer than a person who started early in life.

Also, even if it is a placebo effect, does it really matter? As long as we are getting the desired result who cares how we got it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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