"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is just a hard concept for me to grasp. How can I become not a wussy? It's not overnight but still. I know people at my school don't take me serious. Maybe because I'm in all the nerdy classes or whatever. But how do you present that attitude of "Mess with me and I'll jack you up"? Also I have this thought that if you act like a "man" you might seem a a hole and girls would be turned off by this
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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612_Da_Playa said:
This is just a hard concept for me to grasp. How can I become not a wussy? It's not overnight but still. I know people at my school don't take me serious. Maybe because I'm in all the nerdy classes or whatever. But how do you present that attitude of "Mess with me and I'll jack you up"? Also I have this thought that if you act like a "man" you might seem a a hole and girls would be turned off by this

Well the opposite to acting like a man is acting like a women. You getting any girls acting like that? I doubt it from your post. Really saying that a women would get turned off by you if you act like a man is the stupidest sh!t ive ever heard. You seem to be a major afc! Go read the book of pook and the bible! You need to learn the basics first!
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
Well the opposite to acting like a man is acting like a women. You getting any girls acting like that? I doubt it from your post. Really saying that a women would get turned off by you if you act like a man is the stupidest sh!t ive ever heard. You seem to be a major afc! Go read the book of pook and the bible! You need to learn the basics first!
no you misunderstood me. You know how females will be like, "He's such a jerk" or "He's such an a hole" I know you've heard that response
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They might SAY that but they and secretly want to SEX you up. When it comes to girls judge them by their ACTIONS not their WORDS. Read the book of pook and weapons of mass seduction, then you will 'get' it.

I think you are looking for people to FEAR you rather RESPECT you. There's a difference. If you want to get 'don't mess with me' imagine going them go to the gym and take a martial arts class. When you are huge and have a blackbelt no one will mess with you will they? But it still will not make you the alpha male just by that (it will help of course).

There's no point me writing everything down when there is already great material here to read. I'll give you some basic points:

-Be a leader
-Be loud, talkative, funny and interesting
-Increase your physical presents (through what I said above and posture)
-Do something that people will respect you for
-Don't be phased when people poke sh!t at you

Of course this advice might not be the best because I'm not THE alpha male, even though I do a lot of the above I am still small and don't actively seek it. Nevertheless I score when I want with whoever I want. I think I will be there sometimes soon anyway.

OH: When I say I'm not THE alpha male it is because my main friendship group is basically a group of jocks and alpha males. In my other friendship groups I am THE alpha male.

...Apligies, I started rambling there ;)

If you don't want girls to thinky our an @ss hole then don't act like one.
 

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I tell you one thing. Im naturally a ****y bastard but - females do love it, dont be fooled.
 

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Yeah you'll be surprised man. I went through that stage then actually started being ****y and they loved it.
 

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Remember, there is ACTING and BEING a Alpha-male.

You need to start doing "Alpha" things. Some people say you are a alpha-male or you are not. I believe if you change your ways and mindset you can BE alpha. Do some searches on the forum.
 

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apparently there's a point where you can go too far though. my gf told me that i was lucky she cared so much about me or she woulda dumped me for being too ****y and jerk-ish lol so i think i still haven't quite got the balancing act of ****y with funny yet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But she didn't dump you did she? Actions not words. Actions not words.
 
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