"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alpha Isolation And Alpha Gimmicks

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"Alpha isolation" is defined as a period of time when a man retreats into isolation, does not actively game women, and instead devotes time to improving himself, after which he emerges a much stronger PUA.

It might be his career, his looks, or development of powerful gimmicks (a gimmick is defined as anything that triggers women approaching you), but the key ingredients are isolation followed by marked improvement in results upon one's return to action. An alpha GIMMICK is something unique to your own strengths, i.e,. your "bread and butter" gimmick. Mine is betting horse races, it used to be chess, and hypnosis almost counts, but that is a universal gimmick.

I have had several periods of alpha isolation that I outline in my book. The most notable was the winter of 1993-94, when I lost 42 pounds in 18 weeks, and emerged from the icy winter with a perfect body and a nice fulltime job, with the internet offering seemingly unlimited potential. Not surpsingly, 1994-1996 was my true peak as a PUA, with 1996 my absolute peak, a year I likened to 1927 for the Yankees. That was the year I dominated one woman over AOL into letting me use her account at $2.95 an hour, to pick up other chicks. My offline game was equally strong. This was the result of my research into CUPID, and a determination to have all three of its factors (looks, brains, and status) peaking simultaneously.

Ray Gordon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BettorOffSingle said:
"Alpha isolation" is defined as a period of time when a man retreats into isolation, does not actively game women, and instead devotes time to improving himself, after which he emerges a much stronger PUA.

It might be his career, his looks, or development of powerful gimmicks (a gimmick is defined as anything that triggers women approaching you), but the key ingredients are isolation followed by marked improvement in results upon one's return to action. An alpha GIMMICK is something unique to your own strengths, i.e,. your "bread and butter" gimmick. Mine is betting horse races, it used to be chess, and hypnosis almost counts, but that is a universal gimmick.

I have had several periods of alpha isolation that I outline in my book. The most notable was the winter of 1993-94, when I lost 42 pounds in 18 weeks, and emerged from the icy winter with a perfect body and a nice fulltime job, with the internet offering seemingly unlimited potential. Not surpsingly, 1994-1996 was my true peak as a PUA, with 1996 my absolute peak, a year I likened to 1927 for the Yankees. That was the year I dominated one woman over AOL into letting me use her account at $2.95 an hour, to pick up other chicks. My offline game was equally strong. This was the result of my research into CUPID, and a determination to have all three of its factors (looks, brains, and status) peaking simultaneously.

Ray Gordon
Bettor Off Single: Why Commitment Is A Bad Gamble For Men
http://www.toosmarttofail.com/bos.pdf
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Awesome using one chicks internet to pickup other chicks.
 

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In 2001 Jay Z releases his 6th album called the blueprint. On it was the song 'takeover', a classic diss song that started his feud with Nas. Here's what he says to Nas:

There's only so long fake thugs can pretend
Nigga you ain't live it you witnessed it from your folks pad
You scribbled in your notepad and created your life
What jay z is saying here is, "betteroffsingle stop talking ****, your autobiography is fiction and being a role model is not something you are good at"
 

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But Nas came back with the 5 mic (rated by the source) Stillmatic album(Nas's 5th) which featured the diss track "Ether"

My child, I've watched you grow up to be famous
And now I smile like a proud dad, watchin his only son that made it
You seem to be only concerned with dissin women
Were you abused as a child, scared to smile, they called you ugly?
Well life is hard, hug me, don't reject me
Or make records to disrespect me, blatent or indirectly
In '88 you was gettin chased through your buildin
Callin my crib and I ain't even give you my numbers
All I did was gave you a style for you to run with
Smilin in my face, glad to break bread with the god
Wearin Jaz chains, no tecs, no cash, no cars
In the end Nas wins! and Better of Single stealing some else's MO

Not :cool:
 

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This forum doesn't need any more marketing. It's free and always should be.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can we just turn this into a "who won" thread instead of the original topic?
 

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Im a nas man anyway, the multi syllable god.

When i attack there aint an army that could strike back,
so i react never calmly on a hype track
 

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Ease said:
Im a nas man anyway, the multi syllable god.

When i attack there aint an army that could strike back,
so i react never calmly on a hype track

Beyond the walls of intelligence life is defined, I think of crime when I'm in a New York State of Mind!

sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jay Z may have lost that battle, but he ultimately won the war. lol. I mean common, if you look at Jay Z and what he's accomplished versus Nas, it's a landslide. If you can have a choice to be Jigga or Nas, I think most people take Jigga ;). Nas is a great rapper and all, but Jay Z is a legend now and an icon.
 

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sexysuave said:
Jay Z may have lost that battle, but he ultimately won the war. lol. I mean common, if you look at Jay Z and what he's accomplished versus Nas, it's a landslide. If you can have a choice to be Jigga or Nas, I think most people take Jigga ;). Nas is a great rapper and all, but Jay Z is a legend now and an icon.
But Nas has the better "album catalog" no?

don't get me wrong I love Jay-z but biting Biggie lyrics isn't the deal

besides Illmatic alone ****s on anything lyrically Jay's ever put out even Reasonable Doubt
 

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sexysuave said:
Jay Z may have lost that battle, but he ultimately won the war. lol. I mean common, if you look at Jay Z and what he's accomplished versus Nas, it's a landslide. If you can have a choice to be Jigga or Nas, I think most people take Jigga ;). Nas is a great rapper and all, but Jay Z is a legend now and an icon.
I think you do a big injustice to rap right here. It is Nas who is a real legend and icon of hip hop.

However Jay Z is the man who has the multimillion empire, accomplished more in his career and business. This is what he has done best and will be remembered for.

Nas is a poet and a legend, pioneer of rap etc. among the titles which you could describe him as.
 

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As I said, overall accomplishment, Jay-Z has won hands down. It’s not even close, and this does reflect on some of his IQ as well, he was clearly a smart mofo. And just like you guys, I like both of them, so don’t get me wrong, but Jay-Z has won the war. They are not that far off from each other in rap, the difference is not staggering by any means, and I personally, along many others, like Jay Z better. But the rest of their accomplishments Jigga trumps him. And it’s like looking at the overall picture, the difference if any is not that big as far as rap, and overall Jay-Z has had a greater impact in making rap more popular and accepted throughout the country and the world. He is just a bigger name and to me just as skilled. But on top of all of that, he built an empire, got filthy rich, is helping out the less fortunate more so than any other rapper has, got a the “hottest chick in the game, wearing his chain” lol, businesses, all that good stuff,, he WON this war, hands down.

I dumb down for my audience, and doubled my dollars//
They criticized me for it, yet they all yelled “holla”//
 

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...... pages 56-102 in my book are about how to bury yourself in an Eskimo igloo to whack off for 6 years and emerge an alpha walrus. Check it out, only $19.95 AND I'll throw in a free pair of whacking gloves and some seal pheromones for free free free!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BettorOffSingle said:
"Alpha isolation" is defined as a period of time when a man retreats into isolation, does not actively game women, and instead devotes time to improving himself, after which he emerges a much stronger PUA.

It might be his career, his looks, or development of powerful gimmicks (a gimmick is defined as anything that triggers women approaching you), but the key ingredients are isolation followed by marked improvement in results upon one's return to action. An alpha GIMMICK is something unique to your own strengths, i.e,. your "bread and butter" gimmick. Mine is betting horse races, it used to be chess, and hypnosis almost counts, but that is a universal gimmick.

I have had several periods of alpha isolation that I outline in my book. The most notable was the winter of 1993-94, when I lost 42 pounds in 18 weeks, and emerged from the icy winter with a perfect body and a nice fulltime job, with the internet offering seemingly unlimited potential. Not surpsingly, 1994-1996 was my true peak as a PUA, with 1996 my absolute peak, a year I likened to 1927 for the Yankees. That was the year I dominated one woman over AOL into letting me use her account at $2.95 an hour, to pick up other chicks. My offline game was equally strong. This was the result of my research into CUPID, and a determination to have all three of its factors (looks, brains, and status) peaking simultaneously.

Ray Gordon
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1. We don't subscribe to your terms whatever they may be. English. Do you speak it?

2. You're not a PUA. You're a dude who learned some gimmicks to bang women. That's it. Stop making it seem like something more than it is. It's like those crappy artists who take a dump on a large sheet of board and present it as post-modern art. Oh, this one represents my struggles with society. No it doesn't. You have no talent.

Now I undertand the need to make money, we all struggle for a means to live and work but we don't take kindly to advertising. This is a self help board, not a means to recruit and make cash. You're not even paying for the privilege of advertising here so that we might keep this site running. It's not free to keep this place up.

In conclusion, no hard feelings but go **** yourself.
 

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Ease said:
Nas is a poet and a legend, pioneer of rap etc. among the titles which you could describe him as.

... Like, "really ****ty at picking beats"
 
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Ease said:
In 2001 Jay Z releases his 6th album called the blueprint. On it was the song 'takeover', a classic diss song that started his feud with Nas. Here's what he says to Nas:



What jay z is saying here is, "betteroffsingle stop talking ****, your autobiography is fiction and being a role model is not something you are good at"

Awww those jealous internet haters are here again! Notice not a single critique of the concepts I just set forth here: alpha isolation and alpha gimmicks.

As I said at the beginning of my book, the skeptical reader is INVITED to treat it as a work of complete fiction. Doesn't change its lesson value one bit. I guess the staff from the gym I worked out at while losing all that weight was fictional as well. Damn! Am I even REAL? Oh no!

Ultimate irony: Jay Z. is no "gangsta."

Like I said before, men who listen to haters deserve every inferior woman with whom they wind up. I put the best dating-advice book on the market FREE for men who are SMART enough to use the advice. No skin off my back if a man wants to harm his own results by being a hater. This is also why I love the tracK: I post my picks before the races, and the results are indisputable. Not like this b/s here.

Ray Gordon
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