"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alpha :D vs. AFC :o vs. Dumbass :woo:

jeffthechef

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I think that after being on this site for a while and trying to becoming Alphas...Some of us have begun to miscomprehend being alpha as being a dumbass.

Most of us were AFC's before we came to this site and came to this site for that very reason. We were overtly nice...But now that we have discovered the truth about the Alpha, we have tried to focus our actions solely based on this mentality and have disregarded common sense. Yes, to become an alpha is a great thing, but to become an alpha without a brain is pointless.

I've seen many posts lately that have truly stupefied me. As I watch sportscenter and check up on some new threads, I begin to literally laugh my ass off.

Here are a few points I hope will remind some of us of some things:

1. Chivalry is Alpha. But becoming her ***** isn't. There is a difference.

2. Should you tell your gf that she looks nice, that you miss her, that you love her...WHY THE **** NOT? If you keep doing these things, she will be annoyed. If you don't do them at all, she will be gone.

3. Should you apologize for hitting your gf?.........:rock: I don't know, maybe that would be AFC. Perhaps you would be putting her on a pedastool. But then again, maybe it's just me. ;)

4. There is nothing AFC about apologizing to a girl if there is a legitimate reason to say sorry.

Alpha>AFC
AFC>Mindless Alpha/Dumbass
Alpha>AFC>DUMBASS

Don't be a dumbass. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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azrael

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that treat about the hitting was kinda bogus
You should take everything you read here with a grain of salt:up:

And also try doing things on your own and find out if they work or not
 
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