"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alpha Cuckolds?

AlexKaiser

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So normally, a cuckold is a girl's wallet, some softy guy who works 40 hours and, if approached by a far more aggressive man, would back down, and basically plays second fiddle to his wife's desires.

The thing is, there is this guy I know who is ripped as ****, drives a badass car. Huge **** (haven't seen it but his wife told me about it for some reason?) (( OKAY the story starts with we went out and bought some snacks, I bring a 44oz of soda into the car and she says "Oh ____ can fit his whole **** into that" and I go "ok" and she goes "he can swirl it in like an ice cream machine" and I go "why are we talking about this")) back on topic, basically he wins SS bingo, except in one area.

He doesn't do anything about me going off to try and have sex with his wife.

Like he literally knows what my intentions are and he doesn't do anything. He could destroy my ass and I got nervous when he told me he knew, but, apparently he doesn't care that I am? Girl's gorgeous. I try that with any other guy's wife I'd have a broken pelvis.

She told me "he's into this. The enjoys the feeling of me cheating on him with another man." and I'm just here confused as all hell.

Is this a trap or is this cuckolding thing a fetish?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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Maybe he wants a threesome and his wife is his trojan horse.

Given the size of his d1ck you should hope that he is passive type at least or maybe the active one...we dont judge people taste here :D
 

speed dawg

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So....are you f*cking his wife? Maybe I missed that.

I think most alphas enjoy knowing they have a hot wife/girlfriend. Honestly, by him not giving a damn, it probably raises his value in her eyes. This is assuming you aren't actually doing anything with her. If you are, that's different.
 

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Cuckolding is a fetish, it may very well be that he's into it. I mean if they're still together and everyone knows what's going on they have probably agreed it's ok.

It's very rare, but being a cuckold is a real fetish.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

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He's probably fvcking other women on the side too.
 

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I knew a guy like this. Bigger than porn downstairs too. The wife just got off on other dudes and he loved it. It's not how I'm wired.
 

FwoGiZ

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It's so funny cause I am this guy for some dudes... My gf will tell them that we're open but they're still very reluctant, they're worried that I might flip and start going aggro on them and they can't comprehend that I won't.
I really hate the term cuckold cause it implies you are unaware or that it wasn't part of the deal, which in my case, and I'd think his case maybe, IS part of the deal.
I simply don't give a ****... I don't feel threatened for even a sec that she would leave me and that to her, makes me very valuable. She knows real well too that I won't leave her although I am banging all her friends...which gets turned on by that too.
If everything is orchestrated by yourself and you're getting laid more than avg dude WHILE still having an LTR, that's not cuckold in my book. I call that Alpha 2.0 (coined by BD)

Now get me right here... I am not saying I enjoy the thoughts of her doing that but really, I don't really care. I don't think she does it all that often, mostly when I am on the road. The pros of me being able to have side fckbuddies and bang 75% of her hot friends is definitely an immense pro to me since I don't live in such a big city.

Here's another funny thing that happens too... which makes me unconfortable sometimes but hey, such is life. Apparently, if one of my friend's gf break up with them, their ex feels curious enough as they feel compelled to have sex with me, sometimes along with my gf in 3-some or 4-some even... They've been stuck in monogamous relationship and they wanna explore I guess and know that I am discreet and not gonna start getting needy or whatever the fck they don't wanna deal with ;p
 
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