Alpha before the provider?

[Paarth Shah]

I was hoping for some clarification.

In the context of hypergamy where there is a contrast between visceral emotions invoked by Alpha qualities vs the provider mentality, which should always be the first and foremost? Obviously I know that you all will answer Alpha but that's not what I'm asking. If for some chance I fail to invoke alpha, is there still a chance to invoke the provider? Or is the provider mentality only secondary once a certain visceral threshold for attraction is met?

 

[ohrein]

You don't want to be provider without being alpha. You must be alpha in an LTR. Provider is secondary.

 

[wifehunter]

Once you're not thinking about being alpha, and it becomes automatic. ...you're there.

If you have to make an effort, it isn’t you, yet.

Keep moving. Keep progressing.