Sowatchasayin
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How do u guys take on a woman with alota guy friends. She's always mentioning all these guys when ever we workout together or hang out at my pad
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Alota guy friends?
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jakethasnake
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Easy. Dump her. I personally would rather not deal with girls who constantly need attention (it's because shes VERY insecure, even if she's good looking). I'd offer you the same advice.
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u should check how she met these guys. if she knows these guys because she's some sort of event coordinator, then u know it's part of her job.
if she meets these guy friends through clubs and bars, then yeah, follow jakethasnake's advice
if she meets these guy friends through clubs and bars, then yeah, follow jakethasnake's advice
I was with a girl like that in college. She denied it at first, but it turned out all of her guy friends were guys that wanted her. She was an attention ***** and a regular *****. First I drew the line at her picking up new male "friends". Then I made her stop talking to "friends" who disrespected our relationship. We were together for almost two years, but at the end she cheated on me. In retrospect, I should have known she wasn't LTR material, and just took the easy sex for a month or two and moved on.
It depends on the girl. I've dated some really cool girls that had a lot of guy friends, and some losers too.
The key is to watch how she treats her friends. Does she use them to buy her things and take her places, or does she buy a round once in awhile?
The key is to watch how she treats her friends. Does she use them to buy her things and take her places, or does she buy a round once in awhile?
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If she is really into you, she will lose any and all time for "guy friends" who are just a bunch of AFC's. I'll say it again, if your on top of your game this is not an obstacle. Not one bit.
Sowatchasayin
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But all girls love and want attention
This is one post I MUST ANSWER.
Yes, true all girls want attention, the question is, CAN YOU HANDLE IT?
My advice is to DUMP HER NOW!! Seriously, before you get too involved. These chicks need to grow up, I am guessing you two are around 20? And some of them NEVER grow up.
Good luck.
Yes, true all girls want attention, the question is, CAN YOU HANDLE IT?
My advice is to DUMP HER NOW!! Seriously, before you get too involved. These chicks need to grow up, I am guessing you two are around 20? And some of them NEVER grow up.
Good luck.
A woman with many guy friends indicates one of three things...
- Addicted to male attention. She wh0res herself around and befriends all the guys.
- Male attention addicted to her. Very hot girl who finds lots of guys interested in her, but she LJBF's them because she's taken or otherwise mentally unavailable (read: bitter).
- Catty towards women. I've known more than one woman who said something to the likes of 'Yeah, I don't really have any female friends. I can't stand being around women, they're so bytchy.'
Most of her guy friends are most likely AFCs who are just too big of cowards to make moves on her. The hottest girl in my senior class has probably around 20-30 guy friends at least. Whenever she walks by, they're ready to be friends. At first I used to envious at them because they got the attention from the girl. Now I just see it as pathetic. I realized this not because of the site (not to say this site had 0% involvement) but found out why so many of them liked her.
It was because they all wanted to be in her pants. Most of them when she left talked about how hot she was and wished they'd bang her. How the **** can anyone get anywhere with that ideology? Friends first...**** later. I went up to a few of them who were my friends and said, "She'll never **** you if you keep acting as a friend." I got a buddy who snapped out of it at first but (due to college) that was sure that his plan to get laid was to first be friends with them for at least a year and then move in for the kill of sorts. He tried it on three girls and failed every time. It was so funny to see how he'd try to be both friends and a mack at the same time. He told me in September that his theory was a crock of BS and since then to this May, he's been in three sexual relationships.
IMO, 90% of guy friends will never even think of making a move. Maybe in their dreams or when they're imagining that they're screwing away while trying to beat off but never in real life. Being friends with them often from what I watched gives them this unsatisfactory attitude until she shows and then they act buddy-buddy to her like she's supposed to get on her knees instantly by complimenting her new perfume. The other 10% are most likely guys who probably are able to make the moves but hold back for whatever reason. Maybe its because they're into someone else or maybe they're just waiting for the right time (as in reality, not AFC where she runs through a wheat field to the AFC where she confesses her undying love for the AFC and then kiss as the sun sets) These 10% are what you need to watch out for. Also go by the girl herself. If you think she'll bounce on another man's doodle when you're gone for the weekend, then don't bother with her or have the relationship so unemotional that if she does get d**k on the side that you can ditch her without much feelings.
It was because they all wanted to be in her pants. Most of them when she left talked about how hot she was and wished they'd bang her. How the **** can anyone get anywhere with that ideology? Friends first...**** later. I went up to a few of them who were my friends and said, "She'll never **** you if you keep acting as a friend." I got a buddy who snapped out of it at first but (due to college) that was sure that his plan to get laid was to first be friends with them for at least a year and then move in for the kill of sorts. He tried it on three girls and failed every time. It was so funny to see how he'd try to be both friends and a mack at the same time. He told me in September that his theory was a crock of BS and since then to this May, he's been in three sexual relationships.
IMO, 90% of guy friends will never even think of making a move. Maybe in their dreams or when they're imagining that they're screwing away while trying to beat off but never in real life. Being friends with them often from what I watched gives them this unsatisfactory attitude until she shows and then they act buddy-buddy to her like she's supposed to get on her knees instantly by complimenting her new perfume. The other 10% are most likely guys who probably are able to make the moves but hold back for whatever reason. Maybe its because they're into someone else or maybe they're just waiting for the right time (as in reality, not AFC where she runs through a wheat field to the AFC where she confesses her undying love for the AFC and then kiss as the sun sets) These 10% are what you need to watch out for. Also go by the girl herself. If you think she'll bounce on another man's doodle when you're gone for the weekend, then don't bother with her or have the relationship so unemotional that if she does get d**k on the side that you can ditch her without much feelings.