"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alot of Questions...and very few answers

Paradox

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Can someone with SS and NLP skills reply to the questions in this forum. I see alot of Questions that have only 1 or no response.

In order to make this forum work we have to post.

I have little or no firsthand knowledge of ss and NLP. Someone else needs to step up here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sir_Chancealot

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Hey, I'm doing what I can, but I'm still new to the SS stuff!
 

Vronski

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I am trying too, but it needs some time to gain speed.

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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_
 
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