"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wolve

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As I sit at my computer eating a can of tuna on a Friday night, I realize I don't have any real friends. I talk to just about everyone in school, but outside I'm basically all alone.

I was going to call up this girl, but what the hell would I do? I would have to walk to her house as I don't have a car, but for what? She goes out all the time with people and is used to having plans. I'm really not. Even when I call people up they always tell me

"Oh, my cars full. Sorry bro, call me tomorrow" and they're full of ****." It's pretty depressing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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we all eat food

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Im in somewhat of the same boat as you, but maybe you should start out small like for example.

One of my friends in school didnt have a social out side school like me, so one day i called him up and was like yo im mad bored you wanna chill, and he said yeah deff, and now we chill a lot with my two other friends who didnt have much of a social life.

So try to make plans with kids without much of a life
 

ckyrockes

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I think you should start getting a friends outside of school by, hanging out with people right after school, and remember you should make the most out of school
 

dyce

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you'd be suprised as to how many "popular" people are actually like this. i've been with quite a few popular girls that seem to know everybody they walk past, but their real lives are not like that at all

they only have hi-bye friends
 

MrS

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I agree with dyce, I know a very popular, attractive, cool girl, I was her best friend for a while, and I thought I meant nothing to her.
Strange, innit?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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