congrats man!! Onwards and upwards!
@Mr Wright got it right! Get her as a plate and get experience !
@Mr Wright got it right! Get her as a plate and get experience !
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Almost lost my v-card
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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How do I do it? I didn't fvck her though on her period after I sticked it in the first time. just fingered her to make her c*m.
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Congratulations! I am proud of you
I went in raw for 2 years with no scares. When we decided to have a kid it worked on the first try. I know anecdotal evidence isn't reliable but I don't think it's as risky as people make it out to be. As long as you pee after ejaculating, there shouldn't be any sperm in pre-cvm.
Congrats on the sex OP.
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@JoeMarron I see your point, but it's the same logic a theif has. Like "I haven't been caught for 5 years, thus it's risk free". Of course knowing what you do significantly reduces risk.
I don't use condoms either, but my girlfriend is on birth control pills. Not even they are risk free, but the margin is small enough.
The only zero risk way is to not have sex at all, but that's ridicoulous.
I don't use condoms either, but my girlfriend is on birth control pills. Not even they are risk free, but the margin is small enough.
The only zero risk way is to not have sex at all, but that's ridicoulous.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.