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Almost got into a fight with a SIMP because of his girl's misconduct

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So I decided to head out to the casino tonight to chill. I was unaware there was a Rams game tonight.

Traffic was jam packed. Thousands of people all over the sidewalk and streets.

I'm stopped at a red light and a group of females and their boyfriends are crossing the street. One of the females starts yelling some random gibberish at me and tapping on my car. I rolled down my windows and shouted at her to not touch my car.

Her ( I assume) bf says "watch your mouth, you don't disrespect a lady".

I get out of the car walk right up to him and said "your girl was hitting my car, damn right I'm gonna tell her to keep her hands off"

We exchange some words and get up in each other's face. I'm 5'11" 200lbs. He's about 5'9" but he had 3 friends with him that were about his same size.

The traffic cop at the intersection sees the situation and gets in between to break us up - dude was a big Black guy that had to be about 6'5" 250lbs.

I get back in my car and they walk on, that female was still yelling random gibberish.

The BF was in a no win situation - if he tries to de-escalate, he would lose the respect of his girl. If he throws down, he puts his safety in question.

I think both of us were glad that the traffic cop broke things up because it gave both parties a plausible excuse to not have to fight.

The reality is that it's only a matter of time before that female starts shooting her mouth off again at another guy, and the BF might not be lucky enough to have someone break things up - at some point, he's either gonna have to throw down or de-escalate (which makes him look weak in his girl's eyes).


Fellas, stay away from these loud mouth women that instigate random conflicts and drags you into it. It's just not worth putting your safety at risk or catching a charge over these women.

Keep in mind that there were thousands of drunk fans on the streets wearing jerseys and team colors. Two guys fighting can very quickly escalate into a mob riot.
 

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Might have said to him “Ok, since your in charge here I will talk to you. You need to teach your people about these things we call manors. Tell them to keep their hands off other peoples cars”. In the big picture, on one hand this wasn’t a big deal because it’s not like it’s going to damage your car. Not with her strength alone. But on the other hand I totally believe you were right to say something because these children in adult bodies that society calls “women” need to learn better public manners. And we know Mr. Simp sure as hell wasn’t going to teach them any. As a cop, If I would’ve seen her doing that and told her to stop and she didn’t, I would’ve slapped her a ticket for disorderly conduct. For sure.
 

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Never get into arguments with drunk people. Unless someone is threatening the safety of you or people you are with.

So what some drunk chick tapped your car... this also goes for idiots that flip you off in your car... so what. Just wave and smile... then forget about it.

The best thing that can happen is you waste time and emotional energy confronting this: the worst that can happen is you get shot. There is zero benefit. Maintain emotional self control.

Pity the simps, don't confront them. The dude that is with this b1tch is going to end up in a hospital somewhere if he doesn't dump her.
 

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Had something similar but I was kind of at fault. I come out of my parking lot on Halloween. I roll a bit into the turn and a 7 ish group of parents is on the other side walking. There is no threat but mama bear flips me the bird. Let’s say three pretty fit guys are there as well. But there’s kids right. So I roll down the window and look right at her with a pretty substantial smile and I’m just like “I’m sorry?” But in a question way that implied ‘I saw you, what?’ No need to fight over kids but at the same time this is my neighborhood, and then I let them all go even tho she tried to let me go first, and then I rolled out You have to maintain frame as Rollo says.
 
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There was an incident where some beta male tried to get up in my face in a mate guarding attempt. I think he wanted to fight me. It was so pathetic. I recall him having some Indian ancestry, either as a guy born in India or some Indian-American. I'm not sure if I was hitting on a White woman either. I'm usually not attracted to women with Indian ancestry either and it's rare to see Indian/Indian-American men with White women.
 

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Women like that wont STFU until a dominate enough male makes them STFU.
I would date a happy go lucky slut over a contentious loud mouth kunt any dam day.
They are poison
This . One of my guilty pleasures is watching real people brawl in the streets. One thing that always stands out is the women will jump in the middle and start yelling. Why?

Because women assume "real men?" wont hit them. That's right. Woman nowadays have no fear for the physical strength of a man, especially when there's a crowd. As a man you gotta be aware of this.
Never get into arguments with drunk people. Unless someone is threatening the safety of you or people you are with.

So what some drunk chick tapped your car... this also goes for idiots that flip you off in your car... so what. Just wave and smile... then forget about it.

The best thing that can happen is you waste time and emotional energy confronting this: the worst that can happen is you get shot. There is zero benefit. Maintain emotional self control.

Pity the simps, don't confront them. The dude that is with this b1tch is going to end up in a hospital somewhere if he doesn't dump her.
I agree. In OP's case that man should tell her to stfu because he'll be the one fighting, not her. The fact he thinks he can score some points by protecting their bad behaviour is telling. It's a matter of time before he'll learn the hard way.

I would apologize to you on her behalf and flip out at her, making clear she puts MY life in danger.
 

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Imagine simping and willing to fight a guy cos you are AFRAID of losing status and attraction in the eyes of the woman.

Men are so beta its unbelievable.

That guy is an insecure b*tch.

OP dont defend the BF faggot, that is super low value beta behaviour. He should not be rewarding the girls anti social behaviour by white knighting there. There is nothing to be afraid and nothing to prove.

Those are simply the lowest value males and women secretly know it too .

He should of taken her away and told her not to be anti social and starting fights not give her extra attention and drama.

Fighting ability has little importance in mate attraction and retention.
 

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Might have said to him “Ok, since your in charge here I will talk to you. You need to teach your people about these things we call manors. Tell them to keep their hands off other peoples cars”. In the big picture, on one hand this wasn’t a big deal because it’s not like it’s going to damage your car. Not with her strength alone. But on the other hand I totally believe you were right to say something because these children in adult bodies that society calls “women” need to learn better public manners. And we know Mr. Simp sure as hell wasn’t going to teach them any. As a cop, If I would’ve seen her doing that and told her to stop and she didn’t, I would’ve slapped her a ticket for disorderly conduct. For sure.
Few days ago this happened;

A guy is riding his bike. A group of 3 men and 2 women shout something at him. He stops turns around and asks what's up. They close him in ,some pulls a weapon and he got SHOT. Not dead, but probably disabled for life.


There are countless examples like this. But I just read this as it happened recently.
 

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How old are you?

You literally got out of your car at a red light to confront a group of 4 men and 4+ women (a group of 8+)?

Then... you also have the audacity to say the BF was lucky it got broken up?

Bro you nearly got your wig split, play your position next time. You're either lying or have anger management issues, it's you that should be careful next time.

If that was me, I would have told the girl to f*ck off and told the guy I will smash his face in. Hop out the whip and smash him, get back in the car and drive off. You think it's a good idea to confront a group of 8+ people and draw attention to yourself? If you going to act, act and keep it moving. They were probably drunk so you could have punched the BF and got a punch/slap in on the girl too before speeding off.
 

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You touch my car and it's a problem, some of us value our cars more than most. I would have done the same thing.

Can you imagine what that guy puts up with from this chic. You just saw the tip of the iceberg.

Glad it deescalated.
 

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So I decided to head out to the casino tonight to chill. I was unaware there was a Rams game tonight.

Traffic was jam packed. Thousands of people all over the sidewalk and streets.

I'm stopped at a red light and a group of females and their boyfriends are crossing the street. One of the females starts yelling some random gibberish at me and tapping on my car. I rolled down my windows and shouted at her to not touch my car.

Her ( I assume) bf says "watch your mouth, you don't disrespect a lady".

I get out of the car walk right up to him and said "your girl was hitting my car, damn right I'm gonna tell her to keep her hands off"

We exchange some words and get up in each other's face. I'm 5'11" 200lbs. He's about 5'9" but he had 3 friends with him that were about his same size.

The traffic cop at the intersection sees the situation and gets in between to break us up - dude was a big Black guy that had to be about 6'5" 250lbs.

I get back in my car and they walk on, that female was still yelling random gibberish.

The BF was in a no win situation - if he tries to de-escalate, he would lose the respect of his girl. If he throws down, he puts his safety in question.

I think both of us were glad that the traffic cop broke things up because it gave both parties a plausible excuse to not have to fight.

The reality is that it's only a matter of time before that female starts shooting her mouth off again at another guy, and the BF might not be lucky enough to have someone break things up - at some point, he's either gonna have to throw down or de-escalate (which makes him look weak in his girl's eyes).


Fellas, stay away from these loud mouth women that instigate random conflicts and drags you into it. It's just not worth putting your safety at risk or catching a charge over these women.

Keep in mind that there were thousands of drunk fans on the streets wearing jerseys and team colors. Two guys fighting can very quickly escalate into a mob riot.
To be fair I didn’t read the whole post. Just throw your horn down next time for like a minute in her face. I echo you are lucky you didn’t have something worse happen. You got out of the car…That’s a clear escalation and maybe some would have deemed you as an aggressor
 

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OP - I understand your irritation, but you are lucky you didn't end up in jail. Which is a dumb hill to die on over a drunk chick tapping your car. Had she taken a ball bat to it I would understand the reaction - but otherwise the juice wasn't worth the potential squeeze. If a punch is thrown you can be sure that even if you didn't throw the first shot that you are getting arrested with the other guys.
 

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I wouldn't get into a confrontation if some lady touched my car. Its a waste of energy, time, and not worth the bother. Perhaps I'm just happy go lucky or I don't want to let anything like that phase me, but I just don't see the fuss. For something to disturb my peace it usually has to be a much higher threshold (ie like if an egg shell was thrown at my windshield or something). We must all be wired differently I guess.
 

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The right answer is you tell the guy “what ladies” and then if he steps to your window you put your hand inside your jacket and look at it, and look back at him. Assuming you had a jacket on.
 

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OP I totally understand. Ego gets the best of all of us. Ego is one of our biggest challenges. Its incredibly difficult to walk away from blatant disrespect. I would have been pissed too.

This is why I am on a spiritual journey to calm my ego.

Btw why you gotta mention that the cop was a " 6 foot 5 big black guy" lololol. Its funny how white people think black people have some magical in born fighting ability. Or maybe its becuz we are seen as more aggressive/ intimidating lol. Either way its all love I just thought it was funny.

Btw you should feel sorry for that beta male. Any man that cant control his woman is going to end up very depressed.
 

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OP I totally understand. Ego gets the best of all of us. Ego is one of our biggest challenges. Its incredibly difficult to walk away from blatant disrespect. I would have been pissed too.

This is why I am on a spiritual journey to calm my ego.

Btw why you gotta mention that the cop was a " 6 foot 5 big black guy" lololol. Its funny how white people think black people have some magical in born fighting ability. Or maybe its becuz we are seen as more aggressive/ intimidating lol. Either way its all love I just thought it was funny.

Btw you should feel sorry for that beta male. Any man that cant control his woman is going to end up very depressed.
I noticed that too. Cmon folks.
 

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The game last night was Rams vs Raiders.... for the unaware, Raiders fans are some of the lowest IQ buffoons who idolize thug culture.

Every time I see a group of people wearing Raiders jerseys, I always have to stay on guard cause I know they're prone to doing stupid sh1t....
 

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How old are you?

You literally got out of your car at a red light to confront a group of 4 men and 4+ women (a group of 8+)?

Then... you also have the audacity to say the BF was lucky it got broken up?

Bro you nearly got your wig split, play your position next time. You're either lying or have anger management issues, it's you that should be careful next time.

If that was me, I would have told the girl to f*ck off and told the guy I will smash his face in. Hop out the whip and smash him, get back in the car and drive off. You think it's a good idea to confront a group of 8+ people and draw attention to yourself? If you going to act, act and keep it moving. They were probably drunk so you could have punched the BF and got a punch/slap in on the girl too before speeding off.
You must have missed the part where I said there were thousands of drunk fans every where and traffic was jam packed... speeding off is not an option...
 

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You must have missed the part where I said there were thousands of drunk fans every where and traffic was jam packed... speeding off is not an option...
How old are you?

You said you stopped at a red light and they crossed so I can only assume you could have moved the car.

Whatever, you are acting like the cop saved the guy. Do you think at 5'11 and 200lbs you have the power, speed, endurance and ability to fight 8+ people? If they were all drunk/staggering then yeah maybe you could take them if you struck hard and fast, but you wanted to have a debate in the road with them.

YOU, are lucky the cop wasn't there, YOU would have got F'd up and your car windows smashed in. I would have de-escalated that situation as it's a lose-lose considering the circumstances.
 

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Also for the unaware, this was down in Inglewood, and like Dre said: "Inglewood always up to no good"

This wasn't Beverly Hills this was in the hood.
 
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