Almost fell back into AFC ways but saved myself.

[Infern0]

Just a bit of a report/overview of recent 19/yo hb8.5 experience.

Met her last year coming off BPD breakup and being new to sosuave.

Must say previous AFC me wouldnt have had a look in so happy to have progressed. I actually gamed her after a friend of mine messed up with her but told me to go for it.

Anyway hooked up casually a few times until she got with a beta bucks who had been orbiting her for a while and i went NC.

She reappeared a few weeks back single so we started hooking up again.

Real fun girl and hot but red flags:

Self harmed when younger
Terrible parents
***** tendencies (to others)
Low intelligence
No real ambition
Idealization
Dependency issues (ltr previously friendzoned beta bucks when i wouldnt)

Anyway i started to go down blue pill road in my mind a week ago and started considering an LTR. I was in trouble.

Fouled up on the weekend being too nice, after she had started to show ***** behaviour towards me for the first time.

In the past this girl would have been very very bad news for me, likely id have spent the best part of the year in friendzone and ended up depressed.

Anyways 48 hours of NC and im moving on to better things. So in the end i consider it a win.

I am dissapointed i started to lean towards afc behaviour but happy i pulled back and got out of there before it got too vad.

But in future id like to avoid it entirely rather than having to do damage control.

Any thoughts?

 

[wifehunter]

I think the AFC psychology stems from the abundance of women, but scarcity of quality women.

AFC's only 'see' women at the surface level. If AFC's were aware of all the shenanigans, they'ed be drinking red pill cough syrup. But, wishful 'pie in the sky' thinking, is holding them back.