"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i'm dating this girl and we kinda aren't dating anyone else.
should i wait till she tells me she loves me? i read that you should always wait for her first.

but do any of you do this?
and how often does the girl ask the guy out?

thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you should dominate the relationship mate...arrange dates once a week, no more.

do fun things, but also keep her on an emotional roller coaster.

the love thing you don't worry about. if you become infatuated, get a second girl
 
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Girls rarely ask guys out in plain english, but women have their own language of letting a man know she wants something. How do you know? Girls do a number of things when they want something. Look for extremes. If she's calling you a lot of the time just to talk or hear your voice, then she likes you THAT much. If you notice her doing things "your way" then she's totally head over heels for you. For example, if she likes watching a TV show that you and her usually watch together, then she's trying to reminesce her times spent with you. If she frequently is mentioning other guys obviously to make you jealous, then she likes you.

The bottom line is, don't let her know. She'll let you know. Relationships rarely last when the guy is the one head over heels for the girl. Let her fall for you and let her tell you in her own way. From there, tell her you're pretty interested, but don't act too suprised.
 
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kickureface said:
i'm dating this girl and we kinda aren't dating anyone else.
should i wait till she tells me she loves me? i read that you should always wait for her first.

but do any of you do this?
and how often does the girl ask the guy out?

thanks
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Again Mods, you guys are doing a STUPENDOUS Job!

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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