"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i'm dating this girl and we kinda aren't dating anyone else.
should i wait till she tells me she loves me? i read that you should always wait for her first.

but do any of you do this?
and how often does the girl ask the guy out?

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you should dominate the relationship mate...arrange dates once a week, no more.

do fun things, but also keep her on an emotional roller coaster.

the love thing you don't worry about. if you become infatuated, get a second girl
 
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Girls rarely ask guys out in plain english, but women have their own language of letting a man know she wants something. How do you know? Girls do a number of things when they want something. Look for extremes. If she's calling you a lot of the time just to talk or hear your voice, then she likes you THAT much. If you notice her doing things "your way" then she's totally head over heels for you. For example, if she likes watching a TV show that you and her usually watch together, then she's trying to reminesce her times spent with you. If she frequently is mentioning other guys obviously to make you jealous, then she likes you.

The bottom line is, don't let her know. She'll let you know. Relationships rarely last when the guy is the one head over heels for the girl. Let her fall for you and let her tell you in her own way. From there, tell her you're pretty interested, but don't act too suprised.
 
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kickureface said:
i'm dating this girl and we kinda aren't dating anyone else.
should i wait till she tells me she loves me? i read that you should always wait for her first.

but do any of you do this?
and how often does the girl ask the guy out?

thanks
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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