"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Almost don't care anymore

kingwilliam

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2006
Messages
228
Reaction score
3
Age
48
Location
Nashville, TN
are you having a bad day? Jeez.....

What you need to do is simply make an effort to change your attitude. Slick101 is right. You are bitter and your vibe is probably obvious. Think about happy things......go to the gym and work out til it hurts. It makes me feel GOOD.

Stop being a ****ing ***** and cheer up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top