"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Almost an unbreakable routine that I have made

jigga23

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Ive been using this routine a while. It seems invisible. You follow this and your chances are going to be greatly increased. You need to have a friend with you and start off right next to the set you want to open

-(standing close,really close, to the set talking to my friend) Wtf i just went to the bathroom and these two girls were all up on me and just asked me for some drugs (courtesy of Cajun).

-Then immediatley have your shoulder facing the set and open, say do I look like a drug dealer? Theyll be like yes or no or you look like you atleast smoke weed or whatever they say.

-say Omg i like this girl already to your target regardless of what they say


-dont ask them for their name (too much interest)

-start a little bs convo and they will eventually ask your name.

-when they ask shake their hand and say wow your hands are cold you got bad blood circulation (courtesy of cajun) theyll laugh and do whatever.

-bs a little bit more

-find a piece of clothing on them (shoes, shirt whatever) that looks like a little kid might be able to wear. Then say hey where did you get xxxxx theyll tell and reply by saying "its kind of funny i got a cousin his daughter is 10 years old and she has the same thing" -girls will always laugh

-after all that you should get ioi's and kino

-act normal for a while bs some more

-later on say "you know what my first impression of you was that you were a little dorky. But i guess my impression was wrong you seem like youre cool."

-then number close and your done.

I do this and it never fails. i get the same reactions all the time but the time it takes might be up to an hour cause you need to make it seem like youve built rapport
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ARrocket

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I like some of your stuff, gonna try it myself. Especially the bad circulation thing and the kid clothes.
 

Effington

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I've heard worse man, I can see that working. Congrats if it's worked for you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crazy Asian

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i don't get the blood circulation one... wut is it supposed to imply?
 
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